The Secret Battle Most Men Are Losing (But Can’t Afford To)Most men aren’t falling in public—they’re falling in private.In this powerful and deeply personal video, Red Wallace—Legacy Identity Coach and founder of the Better Than Best Academy—reveals how a quiet lack of self-control is silently sabotaging men’s leadership, marriages, and fatherhood.Through vulnerable stories and biblical truth, Red shows why true strength isn’t loud—it’s restrained, and why mastering your emotions isn’t optional if you want to build a legacy that lasts.🔹 Learn the spiritual foundations of emotional discipline🔹 Discover practical strategies to reclaim your mornings, mindset, and habits🔹 Understand how accountability and routine lead to quiet strengthIf you’re ready to stop reacting—and start leading with integrity—this message is your next step.⏱️ Timestamps 00:00 Introduction: The Silent Struggle of Men 00:31 A Personal Story of Overwhelm 01:10 The Importance of Self-Control 02:22 Understanding True Strength 03:02 Biblical Insights on Self-Control 05:56 Practical Steps to Build Self-Control 07:58 The Role of Leadership and Accountability 08:56 The Power of Spiritual Discipline 11:25 Final Thoughts and Call to Action⚡ Ready to level up your leadership and legacy? 👉 Book your complimentary call: https://calendly.com/coachredwallace/let-s-talk-about-itJoin the waitinglist: https://coach-redwallace.kit.com/waitinglist📲 Subscribe for more faith-based leadership, identity, and growth content.#SelfControl #MensMinistry #ChristianLeadership #LegacyBuilding #FaithAndFatherhoodWHO AM IHey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!