Conflict during the holidays can steal your joy—but it doesn’t have to. In this video, I’m sharing The Eagle Eye Exercise, a proven 3-step method to rise above family tension, shift your perspective, and transform conflict into connection. Whether you’re dealing with sibling spats, in-law drama, or stressful conversations, this tool will help you handle it with wisdom and grace. Stick around to hear my personal story of how this strategy changed my holidays and discover how it can change yours too. Plus, grab the free downloadable guide linked below to practice these steps whenever you need them. In this video, we discuss the often hidden tensions of the holiday season and introduce a powerful tool called the 'Eagle Eye Exercise' to handle conflicts with wisdom and empathy. Learn how to shift your perspective in moments of tension and turn potential conflicts into opportunities for deeper connections. Download a free guide that walks you through the steps for this transformative exercise, ensuring you can navigate any holiday challenge with grace and confidence. Don't let conflict steal your holiday joy—discover the path to becoming a peacemaker this season. 🎁 Download the FREE Eagle Eye Exercise Guide: https://coach-redwallace.kit.com/eagle_eye_exercise 🔔 Subscribe for more tools to thrive during the holidays: https://www.youtube.com/@betterthanbestacademy?sub_confirmation=1 📖 Bible Verses Mentioned: * Romans 12:18 – “If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.” * Galatians 5:22-23 – Fruit of the Spirit * James 1:19 – “Be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry.” * Matthew 5:9 – “Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God.” * ✨ Share your story in the comments below. Let’s make this holiday season one to remember—filled with peace, connection, and joy. 00:00 Introduction: The Hidden Tension of Christmas 01:26 Personal Story: A Holiday Conflict 01:46 Lesson Learned: The Power of Perspective 01:59 Introducing the Eagle Eye Exercise 04:28 Step 1: Ground Yourself in the Moment 05:29 Step 2: Walk in Their Shoes 07:08 Step 3: The Eagle Eye Perspective 08:19 Practical Application: A Christmas Dinner Example 09:23 Conclusion: Transforming Conflict into Connection 10:45 Challenge: Try the Eagle Eye Exercise WHO AM I Hey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!