What stops you from chasing the life or career you truly want?

In this episode of Better Physician Life, Dr. Michael Hersh dives into the fear of failure—a quiet but powerful force that keeps physicians stuck. Reflecting on his own hesitations and coaching experiences, he explores how the pressure to succeed, ingrained through years of medical training, can make any misstep feel like a personal flaw.

Dr. Hersh offers actionable tools to break this cycle: reframing failure as a stepping stone, practicing self-compassion to quiet perfectionism, and asking what success truly means to you. With insights on embracing progress over perfection and handling the fear of change, this episode is a guide for physicians ready to move past self-doubt and step boldly toward their goals.

Top 3 Takeaways

1. Reframe Failure – View failure as a data point, not a verdict on your worth. Like Thomas Edison’s 10,000 tries, each attempt is progress toward your goal.
2. Practice Self-Compassion – Speak to yourself with the kindness you’d offer a child or colleague, especially when things don’t go as planned, to build resilience.
3. Define Your Success – Reflect on what success means to you beyond titles or accolades, focusing on personal values like presence or purpose to guide your choices.

About the Show

Created for physicians seeking more than clinical excellence, Better Physician Life is a space for honest reflection, reinvention, and reclaiming purpose beyond the white coat. Hosted by Dr. Michael Hersh, each episode tackles the unspoken challenges of medical life, offering tools and insights to live and lead with intention.

About the Host

Dr. Michael Hersh is a full-time practicing gastroenterologist, husband, father, podcaster, and physician coach at Better Physician Life Coaching. He helps physicians rediscover joy and balance by setting meaningful goals, managing stress, and feeling more present at home and less annoyed and frustrated at work.

His mission is to help doctors who feel stuck in medicine create a more fulfilling life that they actually enjoy living. Through coaching and conversation, he empowers physicians to reconnect with their purpose and design a career (and life) they love.

Dr. Hersh is also the creator and host of the Better Physician Life podcast: How to Get Unstuck in Your Medical Career—a show for doctors who feel out of sync or stuck, and want to explore what true success can look like beyond the exam room.

🔗 Connect with Dr. Hersh:
🌐 Website: www.betterphysicianlife.com
🔗 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/michael-hersh-md
📸 Instagram: @betterphysicianlife
📺 YouTube: @betterphysicianlife
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The Better Physician Life Podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and does not constitute medical, legal, or professional advice. Always consult qualified professionals regarding your personal or organizational decisions.

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