Consistency vs. Persistence: What Works for the ADHD Brain?

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Welcome back to Authentically ADHD, where we explore the realities of living with ADHD—the science, struggles, and strengths. Host Carmen Irace delves into the debate of Consistency vs. Persistence, examining why one is more suited to ADHD brains than the other. This episode challenges conventional productivity wisdom and offers practical insights for sustainable success.

The Expectation of Consistency: Consistency is often touted as key to success, yet for ADHD individuals, it can feel unattainable. Scientific insights reveal how ADHD brains navigate motivation and effort differently, highlighting the disconnect between traditional expectations and neurological reality.

Redefining Success Through Persistence: Shifting focus to persistence, Irace explains why this approach aligns better with ADHD traits. Persistence allows for flexibility, embracing the natural ebb and flow of motivation without the guilt of perceived failures. Scientific studies underscore the effectiveness of this mindset in achieving long-term goals.

Real-Life Examples of Persistence Over Consistency: Irace provides practical examples—from exercise routines to work productivity and relationships—illustrating how embracing persistence leads to sustained progress. Each scenario emphasizes adapting habits to individual rhythms rather than adhering to rigid schedules.

How to Build Persistence (Without Pressure): The episode concludes with six science-backed strategies to cultivate persistence in daily life. These include leveraging micro-wins, using external structures like alarms and accountability partners, and fostering self-compassion to navigate setbacks effectively.

Closing Thoughts: Consistency may be overrated, but persistence is ADHD-friendly and sustainable. Irace encourages listeners to embrace this mindset, emphasizing that success lies in resilience rather than unattainable perfection.

This episode resonates with anyone who has struggled with maintaining routines or habits, offering a refreshing perspective that celebrates the unique strengths of ADHD. Join Carmen Irace next time as she continues to explore topics essential to thriving with ADHD.

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Show Notes:

INTRODUCTION

HOST (Carmen Irace): Hey everyone! Welcome back to Authentically ADHD, the podcast where we dive deep into the realities of living with ADHD—the science, the struggles, and the strengths. I’m your host, Carmen Irace, and today, we’re tackling a topic that I know so many of us wrestle with: Consistency vs. Persistence—and why one of these works way better for ADHD brains than the other.

I want you to take a second and think about these two words. Consistency. Persistence. Which one makes you feel empowered? And which one makes you feel exhausted just thinking about it?

For most of us with ADHD, "consistency" feels like this impossible standard that we just can’t live up to. We’re told that success comes from doing the same thing, the same way, over and over—but our brains just don’t work that way. And that’s okay.

Today, we’re breaking it all down. We’ll explore:

* The perception of these words and why consistency feels unattainable for ADHDers

* The science behind why our brains struggle with consistency but thrive with persistence

* Why persistence is actually the ADHD-friendly approach to long-term success

* And some practical strategies to help you build persistence without pressure

So, if you’ve ever felt frustrated that you "can’t stay consistent" with habits, work, or goals—this episode is for you. Let’s jump in.

THE EXPECTATION OF CONSISTENCY

Let’s start with consistency.

This word is thrown around all the time in productivity culture:

* “The key to success is consistency.”

* “If you’re not consistent, you’re not disciplined.”

* “Success comes from showing up every single day.”

And if you have ADHD, hearing that feels like being asked to run a marathon with no training, no shoes, and no idea where the finish line is. Because consistency is built on predictability—and ADHD is the opposite of predictable.

🔎 Let’s look at the science:

👉 A study published in JAMA Psychiatry (2020) found that ADHD brains have differences in dopamine transport, making motivation and sustained effort highly variable.

This means that our ability to start, stay engaged, and follow through isn’t a matter of willpower—it’s a matter of brain chemistry.

Consistency assumes that we can produce the same level of focus, energy, and discipline every day. But with ADHD, we experience motivation fluctuations that make one day feel effortless and the next feel impossible.

So what happens? We set goals with the expectation of being consistent. And when we inevitably struggle, we feel like we’ve failed. We blame ourselves. We fall into the cycle of:

* Getting super excited about something new

* Doing it really well for a while

* Losing motivation or forgetting about it

* Feeling guilty for not being consistent

* Beating ourselves up and avoiding it altogether

Sound familiar?

But here’s the truth: You’re not failing. The system is failing you.

We don’t need consistency. We need a new way of looking at success.

REDEFINING SUCCESS THROUGH PERSISTENCE

Now, let’s shift gears to persistence—a word that actually works for our ADHD brains instead of against them.

Persistence means: ✅ You keep going, even if you stop and start. ✅ You work with your natural ebb and flow. ✅ You allow for inconsistency but don’t let it stop you.

Here’s the key difference: Consistency is about doing things perfectly every time. Persistence is about coming back, no matter how many times you get off track.

🔬 And guess what? Science backs this up too!

🧠 A study in Psychological Science (2018) found that people with ADHD perform better when they focus on effort over outcomes. The ability to return to a task, even after a gap, leads to long-term success.

In other words—success isn’t about how often you do something. It’s about your ability to return to it.

Imagine two people trying to build a healthy habit, like journaling:

* Person A (Consistency Mindset): Tries to journal every day, but when they miss a day, they feel like they’ve failed and give up entirely.

* Person B (Persistence Mindset): Journals when they remember, and if they forget for a week, they just pick it back up when they can.

Over time, Person B actually sticks with journaling longer—even though they weren’t "consistent" by traditional standards.

👉 This is the ADHD-friendly approach. Instead of focusing on never missing a day, focus on never quitting for good.

REAL-LIFE EXAMPLES OF PERSISTENCE OVER CONSISTENCY

🔹 Example 1: Exercise

* Instead of saying, "I will work out every day at 7 AM,"

* Try: "I will keep coming back to movement in a way that works for me."

* Maybe one week you work out three times, and the next week only once. But you persist—you return.

🔹 Example 2: Work & Productivity

* Instead of expecting the same productivity level daily, focus on getting back on track when you get off.

* One day might be hyperfocused, the next might feel like a mess. But overall? You’re still moving forward.

🔹 Example 3: Relationships

* ADHD can make communication inconsistent.

* Instead of feeling bad for not texting back immediately, persistence means repairing and reconnecting when you remember.

Here’s an expanded version of the HOW TO BUILD PERSISTENCE (WITHOUT PRESSURE) segment with six science-backed strategies:

HOW TO BUILD PERSISTENCE (WITHOUT PRESSURE)

Now that we know persistence is the key, how do we actually build it into our lives—without feeling like we’re constantly behind?

Here are six ADHD-friendly strategies that help you stick with things over time, without burnout or self-judgment.

✅ 1. Use Micro-Wins (Small Steps for Big Success)

* ADHD brains thrive on quick dopamine hits—the feeling of accomplishment keeps us engaged.

* Instead of setting a huge, intimidating goal, shrink it down.

* Example: Instead of saying, “I need to write for an hour,” say, “I’ll write one sentence.”

* Small wins make it easier to re-engage after breaks, and over time, they add up to success.

✅ 2. Rely on External Structures (Because Memory is Unreliable)

* ADHD brains struggle with working memory, meaning we forget to follow through—not because we don’t care, but because it literally disappears from our mental radar.

* Use tools to bring your focus back:

* Alarms & timers (for reminders)

* Visual cues (sticky notes, habit trackers)

* Accountability partners (text a friend, use an ADHD coach)

* Body doubling (working alongside someone else, even virtually)

* These structures reduce mental effort so persistence doesn’t rely on willpower alone.

✅ 3. Normalize Pauses (Stopping Doesn’t Mean Failing)

* Taking breaks, getting distracted, or shifting focus doesn’t mean you’ve failed.

* If you stop, just restart—that’s what persistence is all about.

* Instead of thinking, “I missed a week of journaling, I failed,” say, “I’ll pick it up again today.”

* Research shows that self-compassion improves motivation and makes us more likely to try again after setbacks.

✅ 4. Focus on the “Comeback Rate” Instead of Perfection

* ADHD brains work best with forgiveness and flexibility.

* Instead of judging success by how consistent you are, measure success by how quickly you return after a break.

* Example: If you skipped the gym for two weeks, don’t say “I failed.” Instead, say “I’m back at it.”

* The goal isn’t perfection—it’s progress.

✅ 5. Make Tasks More Playful & Engaging

* ADHD brains are interest-driven, meaning we’re more likely to persist when something is fun, challenging, or rewarding.

* Ways to make tasks easier to return to:

* Gamify habits (reward yourself, use habit streak apps)

* Change locations (work in a new space for novelty)

* Create challenges (set a timer: “How much can I get done in 10 minutes?”)

* The more you enjoy something, the easier it is to return to it.

✅ 6. Use “Bookend” Routines to Restart with Less Effort

* One of the hardest parts of persistence? Restarting after a long gap.

* A strategy to make it easier: bookend routines—a simple, repeatable way to ease back into a task.

* Example:

* If you’re restarting exercise after a break, begin with your warm-up routine.

* If you’re getting back into reading, start with a book you love.

* If you’re picking up journaling again, use the same prompt to start: “Today, I’m thinking about…”

* Familiar bookends create mental shortcuts, making it easier to jump back in.

Persistence isn’t about doing something every single day. It’s about coming back, no matter how many times you pause.

👉 If you use micro-wins, external reminders, and self-compassion, you’ll find that sticking with things feels way more natural.

👉 If you focus on restarting instead of perfection, you’ll stop beating yourself up for being inconsistent.

Instead of saying, “I need to be consistent,” try saying, “I will keep coming back.”

That’s true persistence. And that’s what makes success sustainable for an ADHD brain.

CLOSING THOUGHTS

So, here’s the big takeaway:

👉 Consistency is overrated. Persistence is ADHD-friendly.

If you keep coming back, if you refuse to let stops be permanent, you will succeed.

So instead of saying, "I need to be consistent," try saying, "I will keep coming back."

That’s it for today! If this episode resonated with you, let me know—leave a review, share with a friend, or comment on a post on social media. And remember, you’re not broken—you’re just wired differently, and that’s okay.

Until next time, stay persistent, stay authentic, and we will talk soon!

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