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92-A Father’s Story of Domestic Violence and Hope with Dean Taylor
Manage episode 516248764 series 3440917
In this episode of 1 in 3 Dean shares the true story of helping his daughter escape domestic violence during a winter storm. A father’s gut feeling, a knock that wouldn’t stop, and a rescue that changed two lives. Dean walks us through the night he drove to a remote cabin and helped his daughter leave an abusive relationship—and the lessons every parent, partner, and friend should know about supporting someone in danger safely.
We talk about how early charm becomes control, how gaslighting distorts reality, and why leaving takes multiple attempts. Dean explains what helped most: staying calm, refusing to engage the abuser, and meeting disclosure with compassion instead of blame.
In the aftermath came healing from trauma—therapy, medication, rebuilding trust—and an unexpected new purpose. A nurse turned mentor, Dean now helps men who seem successful on the outside but feel stuck inside. Together we explore men’s mental health, defining values, and building a life of meaning.
If you’re seeking insight into domestic violence recovery, family support, or finding purpose after trauma, this episode offers hope and actionable guidance. Subscribe, share, and leave a review to help more people find stories that save lives.
Dean’s Links:
https://www.1in3podcast.com/guests/dean-taylor/
https://deantaylorofficial.com/
https://www.instagram.com/deantaylorofficial/
1 in 3 is intended for mature audiences. Episodes contain explicit content and may be triggering to some.
If you are in the United States and need help right now, call the national domestic violence hotline at 800-799-7233 or text the word “start” to 88788.
Contact 1 in 3:
- Send your emails to [email protected]
- Follow on Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok @1in3podcast
- Check out the website https://www.1in3podcast.com/
Thank you for listening!
Cover art by Laura Swift Dahlke
Music by Tim Crowe
Chapters
1. Framing The Conversation (00:00:00)
2. Dean’s Background And Family (00:01:46)
3. The Jiu-Jitsu Instructor (00:03:43)
4. Isolation And Control Escalate (00:06:13)
5. The Valentine’s Trip (00:11:13)
6. The Midnight Drive And Rescue (00:14:43)
7. Disclosure And Aftermath (00:18:33)
8. Why Leaving Takes Time (00:22:43)
9. Healing, Therapy, And Forgiveness (00:26:43)
10. From Crisis To Purpose (00:31:13)
11. Midlife Pivots And Fear (00:34:53)
12. Vision, Values, And Alignment (00:38:53)
13. Learning Through Failure (00:42:23)
14. Childhood Grit And Adult Growth (00:45:53)
15. Resources, Links, And Closing (00:48:33)
94 episodes
Manage episode 516248764 series 3440917
In this episode of 1 in 3 Dean shares the true story of helping his daughter escape domestic violence during a winter storm. A father’s gut feeling, a knock that wouldn’t stop, and a rescue that changed two lives. Dean walks us through the night he drove to a remote cabin and helped his daughter leave an abusive relationship—and the lessons every parent, partner, and friend should know about supporting someone in danger safely.
We talk about how early charm becomes control, how gaslighting distorts reality, and why leaving takes multiple attempts. Dean explains what helped most: staying calm, refusing to engage the abuser, and meeting disclosure with compassion instead of blame.
In the aftermath came healing from trauma—therapy, medication, rebuilding trust—and an unexpected new purpose. A nurse turned mentor, Dean now helps men who seem successful on the outside but feel stuck inside. Together we explore men’s mental health, defining values, and building a life of meaning.
If you’re seeking insight into domestic violence recovery, family support, or finding purpose after trauma, this episode offers hope and actionable guidance. Subscribe, share, and leave a review to help more people find stories that save lives.
Dean’s Links:
https://www.1in3podcast.com/guests/dean-taylor/
https://deantaylorofficial.com/
https://www.instagram.com/deantaylorofficial/
1 in 3 is intended for mature audiences. Episodes contain explicit content and may be triggering to some.
If you are in the United States and need help right now, call the national domestic violence hotline at 800-799-7233 or text the word “start” to 88788.
Contact 1 in 3:
- Send your emails to [email protected]
- Follow on Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok @1in3podcast
- Check out the website https://www.1in3podcast.com/
Thank you for listening!
Cover art by Laura Swift Dahlke
Music by Tim Crowe
Chapters
1. Framing The Conversation (00:00:00)
2. Dean’s Background And Family (00:01:46)
3. The Jiu-Jitsu Instructor (00:03:43)
4. Isolation And Control Escalate (00:06:13)
5. The Valentine’s Trip (00:11:13)
6. The Midnight Drive And Rescue (00:14:43)
7. Disclosure And Aftermath (00:18:33)
8. Why Leaving Takes Time (00:22:43)
9. Healing, Therapy, And Forgiveness (00:26:43)
10. From Crisis To Purpose (00:31:13)
11. Midlife Pivots And Fear (00:34:53)
12. Vision, Values, And Alignment (00:38:53)
13. Learning Through Failure (00:42:23)
14. Childhood Grit And Adult Growth (00:45:53)
15. Resources, Links, And Closing (00:48:33)
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