life handed me stories i never expected… like discovering family secrets, surprise relatives, becoming a mom before i was ready, enough therapy to fill a book, and carrying grief that quietly shaped who i am. and if i learned one thing through it all, it’s this: change is inevitable, but growth is a choice. stories matter. yours. mine. the messy, hidden, uncomfortable parts people don’t say out loud? i care about those. empathy, reflection, and honest conversations are my thing. shift happen ...

your motherhood, your rules is for moms who’ve never stopped to question why they do what they do. motherhood isn’t some cookie-cutter box you’re supposed to squeeze yourself into. it’s messy, it’s personal, and it’s yours. that’s what your motherhood, your rules is all about... dropping the guilt, questioning the crap you’ve been told you “should” do, and finally owning the way you want to raise your kids. every week, we’re having the conversations nobody else is saying out loud, reminding ...