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On Curiosity, Presence, and Love | Dr. Jacob Ham
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1:01:26'What is this moment calling for?' At the heart of Dr. Jacob Ham’s approach lies this profound question. The simplicity of it can be disarming. Yet to answer it skillfully requires the capacity to be present - To notice what is arising moment by moment. Not only in you, But in those around you, As well as what is arising in the space between. That …
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On Inner Healing & Embracing Our True Selves | Dick Schwartz
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54:44Is there just one “you”? This evocative question lies at the heart of Dr. Richard Schwartz’s groundbreaking work as both a therapist, and a researcher. Over 40 years he’s pushed back against convention Challenging what so many of us have been taught to believe - That we have a single identity. And to feel fear or shame when we can’t control the inn…
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Since 2018 The Courageous Life Podcast has invited many of the world’s leading thinkers, researchers, creators, writers, poets, athletes, healers, and teachers to explore how we can find the courage to live an authentic life, to derive purpose and meaning, and to meet ourselves, others, and the world around us with an open heart - as we navigate th…
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On Influence and the Art of Opening Doors | Rosalind Chow
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53:52How do we engage with one another at work in ways that foster more authentic professional relationships? And that ultimately lead to more equitable workplaces? Today’s guest is Dr. Rosalind Chow - A leading organizational expert, professor at the Tepper School of Business, and author of the new book: The Doors You Can Open. Rosalind argues that spo…
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In 2018 I sat down with one of the great spiritual teachers, authors, and poets of our time. During that conversation Mark Nepo asked a question that shook me: "When my heart begins to close, how do I open it again?" My life, my work, and the trajectory of the podcast shifted as a result. The question was presented not as a simple one, with a stati…
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On Honoring the Soul (pt. 2) | Parker J. Palmer
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1:14:06“Is the life I am living the same as the life that wants to live in me?” This searching question is one that bestselling author, legendary teacher and activist Parker J. Palmer has been exploring for decades. His practice of living this question, resulting in the type of wisdom that can only come from the crucible of one’s direct experience. And Pa…
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On Honoring the Soul (pt. 1) | Parker J. Palmer
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1:28:11What leads us to live divided lives that defy our own sense of identity and integrity? When we do, what price do we and the world pay? How can we recover the wholeness that is our birthright? Today’s guest, legendary teacher, activist, and author Parker J. Palmer― has helped people in every walk of life rise to the challenge of living “divided no m…
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On Imperfectionism and the Art of Living Well | Oliver Burkeman
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53:44What if the time is never coming when you’re ‘on top of things’, or finally feel like you know what you’re doing? For years, New York Times Bestselling author Oliver Burkeman has dared to ask provocative questions like these. The sort of questions that invite us to examine popular cultural views about what it means to work and live well. In his bea…
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On Heartbreak, Healing, and Transformation | Sara Avant Stover
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53:06To care, to love, and to be human, Means we will inevitably experience heartbreak. Whether its the loss of relationship, The end of a job, The death of a loved one, A natural disaster, infertility, a financial crisis, or any shape that loss may take. Heartbreak sends us reeling― Leaving many of us feeling alone and adrift. After her own experience …
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On Learning to Be a Better Friend to Ourselves | Megan Prager
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56:11When our good friends encounter challenges, A default response for many of us is often: To have their back To show up fully To be kind To put judgment aside, And to remind them that they are not alone. When we turn this practice, of being for someone, toward ourselves, particularly in the face of: obstacles, hardships, adversity, and failure, it's …
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On the Science, and Magic, of Great Conversations | Alison Wood Brooks
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56:42Alison Wood Brooks is a celebrated Harvard Business School Professor who studies the hidden architecture of conversations. Her groundbreaking work shows that while all of us can struggle with difficult conversations, We’re often not very good at the easy ones either (even though we have them all the time). Alison argues that part of the reason for …
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On Mastering Our Emotional Life | Ethan Kross
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48:18Brain scientist Jill Bolte Taylor famously once said: “Most of us think of ourselves as thinking creatures that feel, but we are actually feeling creatures that think.” Whether it’s anxiety about going to the doctor, Boiling rage when we’re stuck in traffic, Devastation after a painful break-up, Joy from the birth of a child, Or peace that arises f…
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On Wholeness, Service, and Enduring Happiness | Stephanie Harrison
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53:48"It’s not your fault if you are unhappy. You have been told three lies: You’re not good enough; You need to achieve fame, wealth, and power; You need to do it all on your own." These are the words of Stephanie Harrison - author, past Director of Learning at Thrive Global, and expert in the science of happiness. In her new book: New Happy: Getting H…
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On Saving Ourselves and the World | john a. powell
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50:39In a time where the threat of authoritarianism is on the rise, how might we take the next step toward creating truly equitable and thriving societies? This question, for many, may feel increasingly out of reach. And yet for redemptive thinker, and visionary leader john a. powell, it serves as one of the central lines of inquiry in his work. johh a.…
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On Wisdom and Love in Troubling Times | Mark Nepo & Elizabeth Lesser
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1:02:44In times of great division, disruption, and uncertainty, how can we find the ability to stay grounded? While each of us may find we have different answers, Here are a few that have been emerging for me recently: The first - remembering, in the words of one of today’s guests: you don’t have to do it alone. Remembering the power (and necessity) of se…
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On Unwinding Toxic Productivity | Israa Nasir
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55:37What is it that drives our focus on productivity? That colors our experience of work, life, and relationships? Is the motivation to 'do', to achieve, and to push ourselves driven by a subtle undercurrent of fear? A craving to stay relevant, A whisper in the back of our mind that says: If we don’t optimize our lives, fill up our calendars, and stay …
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On Presence, Embodied Wisdom, and Coaching | Ali Schultz & Liz Stewart
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54:34This past November I had the privilege of going to a leadership boot camp hosted by Jerry Colonna and the extraordinary team at CEO and Executive Coaching Firm, Reboot. For 10 years Reboot has been hosting these gatherings. Immersive experiences where a small group of leaders comes together without pretense. Everyone there to explore the possibilit…
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On Love, Death, and Embracing Our Humanity | Roshi Joan Halifax & Frank Ostaseski
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1:03:10It’s here and then it’s gone. In so many ways this is the through line of our experience. From the sunny day, To a common cold, To time spent with loved ones, Or the experience of our wedding day. Joy, love, heartbreak, and ultimately Life itself - All by nature impermanent. To walk through this life Is to walk hand-in-hand with change. It is simpl…
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On Work, Friendship, and Embracing Impermanence | Parker Palmer & Jerry Colonna
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1:11:08Things are changing all the time. From the seasons, To the weather, our emotions, and our relationships. We are born, we grow old, and ultimately we die. To walk through life means to walk hand-in-hand with impermanence. It is simply part of what it means to be human. And this season on the podcast we wanted to make these shared experiences of chan…
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Impermanence, Letting Go, and Finding Freedom | Sharon Salzberg & Sunita Puri
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53:30There are certain threads inescapably woven into our experience of being alive. Simple but profound truths which make up the tapestry of what it means to be human. One of these is impermanence. The fact that everything, by nature, changes. From the seasons, to the weather, our emotions, and our relationships. We are born, we grow old, and ultimatel…
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Morality, Politics, and the Truth About Finding Common Ground | Dr. Kurt Gray
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55:52In his new book, Outraged: Why We Fight About Morality and Politics and How to Find Common Ground, Neuroscientist and Moral psychologist Dr. Kurt Gray argues that for the majority of our evolutionary history, humans were more hunted than hunter. Which might just be the game changing perspective we need for these times. Kurt reminds us that in contr…
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Meditation, Awakening, and Original Love | Henry Shukman
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1:07:29In his new book, Original Love, Zen meditation master, award winning author and poet, and renowned spiritual teacher Henry Shukman offers a tantalizing proposition. At any moment there is a powerful possibility available to us. A possibility of piercing the illusion of separateness, And experiencing a profound sense of connection. In these moments …
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Heroes and Helpers #8: Coming home to our true self with Lizi Oceransky
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28:29Today is our final Heroes and Helpers episode for Season 4 on The Courageous Life. This series launched earlier in 2024 and throughout the year we’ve shined a light on stories of everyday heroes, Ordinary people who are navigating life’s challenges and adversities with hope, courage, resilience, and love. These are the remarkable stories of: Our ne…
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Heroes and Helpers #7 - The power of presence with Vicky Furlan
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21:36As we get ready to close out the 4th season of The Courageous Life we are revisiting inspiring stories of everyday heroes and the helpers who walk beside them. These Conversations, which launched this year, shine a light on ordinary people, Our neighbors, friends, colleagues, and members of our communities, who rise up to meet challenges, And navig…
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The Missing Ingredient to 'The Good Life' | Dr. Lorraine Besser
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55:39What does it mean to live a 'good life'? For centuries philosophers, theologians, and psychologists have explored this question. Arguing primarily that there are two distinct paths to living well. The first might be casually thought of as sex, drugs, and rock and roll. Choosing pleasure as our primary pursuit - building our life around a simple equ…
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On Imperfectionism and the Art of Living Well | Oliver Burkeman
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55:07What if the time is never coming when you’re ‘on top of things’, or finally feel like you know what you’re doing? For years, New York Times Bestselling author Oliver Burkeman has dared to ask provocative questions like these. The sort of questions that invite us to examine popular cultural views about what it means to work and live well. In his bea…
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A Cardiologist's Journey to Healing, Health, and Happiness | Dr. Jonathan Fisher
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53:55Dr. Jonathan Fisher, is a Harvard educated cardiologist, a mindfulness teacher, and an outspoken leader passionate about helping to end the epidemic of clinician burnout in healthcare. In sharing his own story he writes: "I took care of 20,000 hearts before taking care of my own. For years, I hid my anxiety, depression, and burnout behind the facad…
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Practicing Courage #46: The subtle art of letting go with Amy Dong
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5:52Today's practice features guest teacher Amy Dong. Amy is a talented therapist, and a breath work facilitator, who specializes in helping both individuals and couples to find steady footing through life’s inevitable twists & turns. She’s also the author of a beautiful sub stack called The Softening. Which she describes as a walk through our internal…
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Everything You Want is on the Other Side of Fear | Amy Dong
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54:34Our 20’s are a unique season in our lives. While often romanticized as a decade that should be a high point It’s a time often fraught with major life transitions From leaving the familiar rhythms of school Which so many of us have known since early childhood To (for many of us) entering the work force full time, for the first time To shifts in mean…
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Practicing Courage #45: Making friends with uncertainty and embracing positive possibilities
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8:54This past week clinical psychologist and bestselling author Dr. Meg Jay was back on the show. One of the big themes we explored together was uncertainty, And how we can experience more ease in the face of it. Meg offered a useful reminder that when we experience uncertainty research shows that our amygdala becomes more active. The amygdala being th…
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A Revolutionary Remedy for Uncertainty - In Our 20's and Beyond | Dr. Meg Jay
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58:03Our 20’s are a unique season in our lives. While often romanticized as a decade that should be a high point, they are an age marked by uncertainty and major life transitions. From leaving the familiar rhythms of school, To (for many) entering the work force full time, for the first time. To experiencing changes in meaningful relationships, friendsh…
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Practicing Courage #44: Learning to fail better
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7:36To fail is human. It’s built into our experience from childhood. We begin to walk and we fall. We begin a project, we work toward a goal, or we start a business and we may fail. We experience these moments - When we are engaged in learning, When we are moving toward something we care about And we come up short. And in these moments there is an oppo…
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The Courage to Choose Growth, Again and Again | Dr. Jordyn Feingold
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54:20“One can choose to go back toward safety or forward toward growth. Growth must be chosen again and again; fear must be overcome again and again.” -Abraham Maslow What is it that empowers people to make this choice? To be bold enough to step forward into fear as they move toward purpose, and transcendence? These questions are at the heart of today’s…
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Practicing Courage #43: Finding peace right where you are with Amy Dong
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7:11One of the highlights of this season on the Courageous Life has been expanding the show with a new series that features inspiring stories of everyday heroes and the helpers who walk beside them. One of these helpers conversations featured Amy Dong. Amy is a talented therapist and a breathwork facilitator. During our conversation she offered a windo…
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The Art of Being Human at Work | Ali Schultz
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53:25“If we don’t work on our stuff, our stuff will work on us. It will run our lives - and show up in our offices and relationships - until we take the reins of responsibility for our own well-being.” These words were written by today’s guest, Allison Schultz (who goes by Ali). Along with Jerry Colonna and Dan Putt, Ali co-founded Reboot, the widely ac…
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Practicing Courage #42: Don't underestimate the power of a kind act
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6:29In today’s practice you’ll hear a clip from a past conversation with kindness researcher Dr. Kelli Harding. She’ll offer a beautiful reminder about just how easy it can be to make someone else’s day. How little it takes to lift others up. And that when we do, when we offer these little acts of kindness, they generate positive ripples outward. One s…
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Finding Solutions to Seemingly Intractable Problems | Rob Fersh and Mariah Levison
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59:13How might we learn to better negotiate and navigate seemingly intractable issues? And what if it was possible to not only navigate these issues, but to meet all people’s needs in the process? What if it was possible to truly find win-win solutions? In today’s conversation with Rob Fersh and Mariah Levison, two leaders in the field of bridge buildin…
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Practicing Courage #41: A powerful way to connect and build relationships
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11:29Yesterday we re-released a moving Courageous Life conversation with Juliana Tafur. Juliana is a journalist, award winning documentary filmmaker, and bridge builder. She serves as the Program Director for the Greater Good Science Center’s Bridging Differences Program. During our time together she shared shared some of her story, and insights from he…
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Building Bridges Back to Each Other | Juliana Tafur
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51:31How can we more effectively navigate conversations with people who have different values, and beliefs than we do? Neighbors, community members, co-workers, and family members who care deeply about the same issues, but who have widely different views about them. What are the conditions that would be needed in order to have productive conversations? …
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Practicing Courage #40: Let go of assumptions and embrace curiosity
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4:23When I was first learning to be a coach we had a saying before stepping into a coaching conversation: Leave your assumptions at the door and embrace curiosity. In reality we often know SO little about someone’s experience, and about their story. And when we recognize that, what seems to make the most sense is to get curious. To ask questions, And t…
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Rediscovering the Art of Constructive Dialogue | Dr. Mylien Duong
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54:52How can we more effectively navigate conversations with people who have different values, and beliefs than we do? Neighbors, community members, co-workers, and family members who care deeply about the same issues, but who have widely different views about them. What are the conditions that would be needed in order to have productive conversations? …
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Practicing Courage #39: Rethinking the timeless advice to 'always do your best'
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4:27Always do your best. When I was growing up I heard that a lot. "Just do your best." "Leave it all on the field." Or some similar version of that message. It seemed like a generally positive and empowering message. An invitation to show up fully and give it my all. I was on board. But what I didn’t realize was that this message was incomplete. It wa…
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Uncovering the Possibility of Post-Traumatic Growth | Dr. Amrita Sen Mukherjee
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47:36One of the most extraordinary manifestations of human potential is: Our ability to grow and strengthen ourselves in the face of pain, trauma, and those moments where life falls apart. Today’s guest, Dr. Amrita Sen Mukherjee, has not only studied what contributes to this deeply human capacity for post-traumatic growth but has experienced it first-ha…
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Practicing Courage #38: Unlocking potential with the new science of mindset
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14:08In yesterday’s Courageous Life episode with psychologist and author, Dr. Jill Stoddard, we took a deep dive into overcoming self doubt and imposterism. Part of which reminded me of a powerful practice for transforming stress. A practice I first learned from Dr. Alia Crum and her team at Stanford’s Mind and Body Lab. I originally created this practi…
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Overcoming Self-Doubt and Imposterism | Dr. Jill Stoddard
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56:06Today’s guest identifies as a recovered imposter. For years, she was convinced that the only reason she was accepted into a competitive grad school program was because her father knew the program director. One thing research shows is that Dr. Jill Stoddard, psychologist, and author of Imposter No More, isn't alone in this. Deep down, a majority of …
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Heroes and Helpers #6 - Acceptance and unconditional positive regard with Liliana Öğün
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23:28In the hero's journey, the hero or heroine is called to adventure. Often in the form of a quest, a challenge, or an adversity. And often in unexpected ways. One of the things that’s interesting about the heroes journey is that shortly after the call a helper enters the picture. A mentor, sage, guide, or a coach who helps the hero to navigate the ad…
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Practicing Courage #37: The only moment we'll ever have
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7:50"It’s very important work to be calm in a storm. To be a center for the people in your life." -Elizabeth Lesser (Courageous Life Episode 112) So often when storms arise in our life they unleash a variety of feelings: Uncertainty Fear Groundlessness When these experiences arise the mind will often will enter into a cycle of trying to find ground, of…
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Strong Back, Soft Front: The Practice of a Lifetime | Elizabeth Lesser
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58:08In the more than forty years since she co-founded Omega Institute—now the world’s largest center for spiritual retreat and personal growth—Elizabeth Lesser has been an intimate witness to the ways in which people weather change and transition. In our conversation I shared the question we have been exploring on the show for years. A question that ca…
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Heroes and Helpers #5 - Building a future starts with feeling seen with Hayley Philander
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30:43In the hero's journey, the hero or heroine is called to adventure. Often in the form of a quest, a challenge, or an adversity, And often in unexpected ways. One of the things that’s interesting about the hero's journey is that shortly after the call a helper enters the picture. A mentor, sage, guide, or a coach of some sort. They help the hero: Nav…
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Practicing Courage #36: Finding the courage to be real
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9:27After work one evening I met a friend who has been navigating big questions about their career and what’s next. We sat outside and they shared some of their story. A close friend of theirs, whom they care about and deeply respect Had called them up And offered advice about what to do. While well intended it completely missed the mark. My friend lef…
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