Colleen is a student of Dr. Harville Hendrix and Dr. Helen LaKelly Hunt who created the Imago Theory and have brought this work to over 50 countries around the world. She is profoundly influenced by this belief shared by Dr. Harville Hendrix. He said, "We are born in relationship, wounded in relationship and healed in relationship." What are you struggling with today? Colleen believes that almost any problem we have began with a broken or unhealed relationship. The anxiety or deep sadness we ...
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Healing Through Betrayal: A New Perspective with Gene Shelley
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41:38Send us a text When betrayal shatters trust in a relationship, the cultural script is clear: there's a victim and a perpetrator. But what if we've been thinking about affairs all wrong? Master Imago therapist Gene Shelley guides us through a profound reframing of infidelity that moves beyond blame and judgment. With decades of clinical experience h…
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Sex, Desire, and the Path Back to Intimacy with Dr. Nikki Nolet
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46:45Send us a text What happens when the spark fades? That question haunts couples across all life stages, from newlyweds to empty nesters. In this illuminating conversation with Nikki, a dual-certified Imago therapist and sex therapist, we uncover the delicate interplay between emotional connection and physical intimacy that shapes our relationships. …
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Looking for mom in all the wrong places: The Profound Journey of Internal Mothering with Dr. Nedra Fetterman
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47:26Send us a text What does it mean to mother ourselves, and why might this be one of the most important relationships we'll ever develop? Dr. Nedra Fetterman joins the Relationship Blueprint podcast to explore the profound impact of our earliest experiences with caregivers and how these shape our internal dialogue throughout adulthood. Dr. Fetterman,…
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What Makes Couples Therapy Actually Work? Dr. Kathy Malcolm Hall Explains
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43:17Send us a text When relationships falter, many couples seek help without understanding what makes therapy truly effective. Dr. Kathy MalcolmHall joins the Relationship Blueprint to reveal the four research-backed common factors that determine success in couples therapy, regardless of approach. The conversation opens by contrasting individual therap…
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Love, Power, and the Contracts Between Us with Wendy Patterson and Bob Patterson
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44:50Send us a text What if the recurring conflicts in your relationship aren't about incompatibility but instead signal that your unspoken agreements need updating? Bob and Wendy Patterson, married for 44 years and pioneers in relationship therapy, introduce the revolutionary concept of relational contracts that could transform how you connect with you…
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Unlocking Potential: The Birkman Method for Teens and Young Adults, with Brian Eames
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29:00Send us a text Ever watched your teenager struggle with what comes next after high school? The pressure to choose the "right" college major or career path can be overwhelming for young people—and equally stressful for the parents trying to guide them. Brian Eames, a certified Birkman consultant, reveals how this powerful personality assessment can …
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Parenting Blueprint: Navigating the Journey with Michele Naude
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52:20Send us a text Michele Naudé, Imago therapist and faculty member from South Africa, shares profound insights about the parenting journey, with special focus on single parenting and the constant balance between struggles and celebrations. • The concept of being a "good enough parent" rather than striving for perfection • How showing up consistently,…
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How to Create a Shared Vision for a Thriving Partnership with Dr. Sophie Slade
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1:06:57Send us a text Discover the importance of creating a shared vision for relationships and how it can enhance emotional intimacy. Sophia Slate joins us to discuss practical insights for couples seeking to clarify and establish their relationship goals. • Exploring the concept of relationship vision • Discussing why a shared vision matters for couples…
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Connected Parents Thriving Kids with Marcia Ferstenfeld
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46:05Send us a text Join us for an inspiring episode as we celebrate the joy of welcoming new life into the world with the birth of Baby Jonah Gray. This episode is a heartfelt discussion on the journeys of parenting, the innate challenges that come with it, and how our past shapes our present as parents. We dive deep into the tapestry of family dynamic…
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Exploring Polyvagal Theory: Transforming Relationships through Connection and Understanding with Hayley Hoffman
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47:00Send us a text This episode dives into how understanding polyvagal theory can profoundly impact our ability to connect in relationships. Hayley Hoffman, an Imago therapist, explores the importance of safety, co-regulation, and practical strategies, encouraging listeners to cultivate curiosity and playfulness to navigate conflicts and enhance connec…
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Unlocking the Power of Love: Transformative Relationship Insights with Dr. Harville Hendrix and Dr. Helen LaKelly Hunt
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35:31Send us a text This podcast episode explores the complexities of love and relationships, focusing on lifelong intimacy rather than one-day celebrations. Equipped with practical advice from Dr. Harville Hendricks and Dr. Helen LaKelley Hunt, listeners learn how to cultivate lasting love through communication, removing negativity, and celebrating sha…
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Menopause and Relationships: Transformative Insights with Jesica Eames
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46:48Send us a text This episode focuses on the often-overlooked topic of menopause, featuring Jessica Ames, who shares her personal journey and insights into how hormonal changes can affect women's lives and relationships. It discusses the importance of informed care, recognizing symptoms, and advocating for better health support for menopausal women. …
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Sharing the Silent Struggle of Miscarriage and Loss, with Allison Dragony
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1:20:01Send us a text This episode delves into the profound complexities of grief within relationships and how couples can support each other through challenging times. Through Allison Dragony’s insights, listeners learn about the importance of open communication, understanding neurodivergence in emotional responses, and creating safe spaces for dialogue …
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Embracing Anger: Transforming Relationships through Understanding and Connection with Adela Moldovan
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53:11Send us a text Discover how embracing anger can transform your relationships in our latest episode of the Relationship Blueprint. We've invited Adela Moldovan, a distinguished therapist from Romania, to share her profound insights on the complex ways anger is socialized in children and its impact on adult relationships. Have cultural norms led you …
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Parenting 101 with Marcia Ferstenfeld, M.A., CIRT, C.I.
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58:49Send us a text Join us for an enlightening conversation as we kick off the second season of the Relationship Blueprint with a fantastic guest, a seasoned clinician and co-creator of the "Connected Parents and Thriving Kids" course. Together, we unravel the profound influence of childhood experiences on our adult lives and relationships, and the pro…
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Episode 15: Let's Unpack the Hidden Dynamics of Goal Achievement
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15:22Send us a text Ever wondered why our New Year's resolutions fizzle out despite our best intentions? Discover the underlying factors that can make or break your goals as we explore the nuances of clarity, motivation, and accountability. Together, we'll examine how viewing your objectives through a relational lens can uncover unhealthy ties with your…
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Episode 14: This Year Let Your Presence Be Your Present
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14:36Send us a text Have you ever wondered how your personal contributions shape the dynamics of your relationships? Join me as I recount my transformative experience with the Imago Relationship Theory, a journey sparked by an unforgettable appearance from Dr. Harville Hendrix on Oprah. This episode serves as both an invitation and a promise: you'll gai…
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Healing Beyond Sobriety: The Transformative Power of Love and Connection in Recovery with Maureen Brine
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40:31Send us a text Join us for an illuminating conversation with Maureen Brine, a leading figure in addiction recovery and Imago Relationship Therapy. With over three decades of experience, Maureen opens up about her personal journey, exploring how growing up as an adult child of an alcoholic and being a mother to a son in recovery has shaped her uniqu…
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Episode 12: Navigating War and Peace: Stories of Resilience and Connection in Israel
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1:01:43Send us a text Peace advocate and imago therapist Orly Warhman shares her unique perspective on life in Israel amidst ongoing conflict. With a son serving in the military reserve and a daughter organizing a Woodstock Peace Festival, Orly's family embodies the duality of life in a war-torn region—balancing duty and the the desire for peace. Discover…
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Episode 11: Want better Communication? Let's Learn the Art of Mirroring and Appreciations
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39:42Send us a text In this conversation, Colleen Kowal and Rebecca explore the intricacies of communication in relationships, especially during the holiday season. They discuss the importance of setting intentions, understanding perceptions, and practicing effective communication to foster deeper connections. The dialogue emphasizes gratitude and appre…
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