Why does working like a man lead to burnout in women? Dr. Danite sits down with certified hypnotherapist and feminine embodiment guide Zoe Dane to explore what it truly means to work like a woman—honoring natural cycles, prioritizing pleasure as productivity fuel, and creating from spaciousness rather than grinding. Spoiler: Less is more.
Meet Zoe Dane
Certified hypnotherapist, tantra yoga teacher, and feminine embodiment guide specializing in sensuality and devotion. Host of The Better It Gets Podcast, co-host of Dripping In Divinity Podcast, and founder of The Vessel Membership for women devoted to love, legacy, and leadership.
Key Topics
- From feminist movement to feminine embodiment awakening
- Why emulating men leads to burnout and disease
- You can't play a violin like a drum—each instrument needs its own approach
- Honoring the four seasons of your menstrual cycle
- Nature connection, allowing over forcing, prioritizing relaxation
- Embodiment practices: dancing, yoga, breast massage, self-pleasure
Powerful Quotes
"You can't play a violin like a drum. They both make music, but you have to know how to work the beauty of each instrument." - Dr. Danite
"Prioritize your purr. Prioritize that which makes you purr." - Zoe Dane
"Feminine brilliance comes from spaciousness." - Zoe
"The more I soften, the more I move in my pleasure, the more I slow down, the more money I make." - Dr. Danite
Practical Practices
- Morning: 10 minutes of sensual yoga flow or dance—allow yourself to be danced
- Throughout Your Day: Butter your body slowly, breast massage with tallow butter, beautify your workspace with roses and candles, work in something sensual
- Self-Pleasure: Suspend goal of climax, work with colors of light (gold, pink, magenta), use breath as lifeline, use hands to "play your instrument"
- Nature: Plant feet on earth, get your yoni in the sun, suspend judgment
The 10 Codes Unlocked
1. Nature is Your Teacher
2. Allowing Over Forcing
3. Prioritize Relaxation
4. Spaciousness Creates Brilliance
5. Embodiment is Your Power
6. Pleasure is Activation
7. Tune Your Instrument
8. Beautify Everything
9. The Two is Everything
10. Devotion to Your Vessel
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Connect
Zoe Dane zoedanecoaching.com | IG: @zoedane | YT: @zoedanelove
Dr. Danite Haller drdanite.com | blissandtallow.com
Integration Practice
Choose ONE practice that makes you purr and commit daily: morning dance, butter your body with full presence, breast massage, self-pleasure without goal of climax, beautify your workspace.
Journal: What does my purr sound/feel like? Where am I forcing instead of allowing? How can I bring more spaciousness into my day?
"This conversation illuminated something so important: we've been taught to feel shame about the very things that make us feminine. But when we reclaim our pleasure, our cycles, our sensuality, our connection to nature—we unlock a power that doesn't require grinding. It requires softening. And that, my loves, is revolutionary." - Dr. Danite
The Bliss Lab with Dr. Danite - Where working like a woman means flowing with your natural rhythms, prioritizing your purr, and creating from divine spaciousness.