You’ve been the nice guy your whole life—saying yes, avoiding conflict, trying to be liked. But deep down, you know it’s not working.

In this video, I’ll show you how to stop people-pleasing and start living with self-respect, confidence, and purpose.

If you feel invisible, stuck, or unappreciated... this isn’t about becoming someone else. It’s about reclaiming the man you truly are.

🔥 RESOURCES FOR YOU

FREE Becoming Blueprint → https://www.brothr.life/your-blueprint

Join the Brothrhood (Online Men’s Community) → https://www.brothr.life/brothrhood

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Coaching, retreats, & tools → https://www.stumurray.com

🎥 WATCH NEXT

Part 1 – FOUR Brutal Signs You're Stuck In The Nice Guy Trap → https://youtu.be/ucfck9sXVcI

Part 2 – 3 Mistakes NICE GUYS Make that Destroy Their Relationships → https://youtu.be/V1mXPh__nsM

WHO IS STU MURRAY & BROTHR?

I’m Stu Murray, men’s coach and founder of Brothr. This channel is for men ready to take ownership of their lives, break through self-imposed limits, and lead with purpose, integrity, and connection.

Here, you’ll find raw conversations, practical tools, and actionable insights to help you master your emotions, confront your shadows, build deeper relationships, and step boldly into the man you’re meant to be.

Brotherhood is the medicine. Subscribe, join the movement, and start living a life of courage, authenticity, and contribution.

Timestamps

0:00 – Why being nice is holding you back

1:30 – Step 1: Self-Respect

3:49 – Step 2: Vulnerability

6:20 – Step 3: Purpose + Brotherhood

9:00 – Reclaiming your power & next steps