Best Stu Murray Podcasts (2025)

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I Tried to Kill Myself 7 Times—Here's What Saved Me w/ Ned Weidner 1:21:25

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“Every morning for 15 years, my first thought was: ‘How will I kill myself today?’ I put a gun to my head at 19—it misfired. That moment began a journey into the wild that saved my life and revealed an ancient path back to wholeness.”Most men today are living someone else's life, domesticated beyond recognition, severed from the primal wildness tha…

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Calories, Controversies, and Connections — 500 Episodes Later 1:13:03

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Celebrating 500 episodes, you’re right in the middle of a musician’s playground with Dave, Mike Schulte, and Skylar Hamilton. You’ll hear how Skylar picked up the sticks to ace a school audition, why guitar lessons with Dad flopped, and what it takes to manage intensity behind the kit, especially as the decades wear on. From Clem Burke’s calorie-bu…

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Stop Saying These 3 Words (They Make You Look Weak) 15:49

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Strong men don’t say "I have to," "I need to," or "I should"—but most guys leak power through this victim language without realizing it. These three phrases instantly signal weakness and make you appear untrustworthy to your wife, kids, and colleagues.If you're tired of feeling powerless, resentful, or like you're constantly seeking approval, this …

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Stu Dias and The Ephemeral Sea Turtles 1:27:36

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This week on Gig Gab, you’ll dive into the wild, creative energy of Stu Dias, creator of Diaspora Radio, co-founder of Soggy Po Boys, and more, sitting in with Dave Hamilton. You’ll hear how albums, once carefully crafted statements, inspired Stu’s pandemic-born project to breathe new life into full-length records on stage. From Taylor Swift’s trac…

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Why Men Are Collapsing (And Women Are Walking Away) w/ Wayne Barkus 1:13:12

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Most men are performing strength instead of embodying it – and women can sense it from a mile away. After Wayne Barkus’ divorce, he discovered he was choking on his own truth, seeking approval from everyone except himself. This conversation reveals why the age of uninitiated men is ending and what rises from the ashes. We explore the invisible forc…

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Always Be Recording...with Brad Madix 1:33:05

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You’re revolutionizing live audio in ways that seemed impossible just a few years ago. Brad Madix joins Dave Hamilton to break down how you can now mix a 186-channel concert in ATMOS from thousands of miles away with only 125ms latency, using nothing more than the public internet and cloud services. Whether you’re handling a seven-minute festival c…

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Orthodox Priest: Why Modern Men Are Spiritually Starving 1:25:42

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What happens when a successful priest realizes he's "done everything right" but is dying inside? Father Michael Butler's panic attack at 45 became the catalyst for a profound transformation - and this raw conversation reveals exactly how it happened.In this conversation, Father Michael shares the brutal truth about male purpose, why thousands of yo…

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Keith Murray on The Chaos, Comedy, and Heart Behind We Are Scientists 1:07:19

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Keith Murray from We Are Scientists joins you this week for a sharp, hilarious, and revealing ride. From joking about being background extras in cult films to the story of meeting Chris Cain at a Dawson’s Creek viewing party, you’re reminded that sometimes saying yes to everything really can lead to magic. Keith reflects on 20 years of With Love an…

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Why I Walked Away From a Career I Loved (Without a Backup Plan) 19:52

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There's a voice inside you that knows things your logical mind hasn't figured out yet. I spent 8 years ignoring mine — until my body started screaming what my intuition had been whispering all along. This is the story of walking away from a respected career in education, not because I hated it, but because something deeper was calling. It's about t…

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When Your Band Replaces You… and How to Replace Them Back 51:12

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This week, you’ll hear how Paul Kent is clocking an impressive 160 gigs this year while navigating the realities of new bands, new towns, and the politics of live music scenes. From the sting of finding out your band might replace you, to turning that around with a “sub for a sub” mindset, Paul shares what it’s like to balance loyalty, opportunity,…

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Being “Nice” Is Killing Your Relationship—Here’s the Fix 1:27:44

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Most men think avoiding conflict keeps the peace. But what if I told you that avoiding confrontation is actually the fastest way to kill intimacy in your relationship?After years as a firefighter struggling with PTSD and nearly losing his marriage, Markwell discovered something counterintuitive: conflict isn't the enemy of connection - it's the gol…

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Band Chemistry and Collaboration: Lessons with The Coffis Brothers 1:13:02

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You’re in the room with The Coffis Brothers this week as Jamie and Kellen sit down with Dave to unpack the art of keeping a band tight—musically, emotionally, and logistically. From maintaining long-term chemistry with the same players to writing songs that leave space for bandmates to shape the vibe, you’ll hear how collaboration fuels creativity.…

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44 - 3 Simple Changes to GET HIM TALKING and Stop Shutting Down 24:34

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He shuts down. You stay calm. You speak your truth—and still feel like the villain. This video unpacks why that happens, how emotional unavailability shows up, and what to do next.You’ve done everything “right.”You’re calm. You’ve thought through your words. You’re not blaming or attacking—you’re just sharing how you feel. And somehow… he still shu…

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Backstreet Boys and Black Eyed Peas: How Keith Harris Balances Drumming, Directing, and Performing 45:33

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On this week’s Gig Gab, you’re getting a masterclass in modern musicianship with Keith Harris, the drummer, producer, and musical director for the Black Eyed Peas. From behind the kit to behind the console, Keith walks you through the art of turning groove into leadership, showing how drummers often evolve into musical directors. He shares the hard…

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43 - I Stopped Watching Porn and This Happened to My Life W/ Nakula Das 1:40:21

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Semen retention, porn addiction recovery, male sexual energy, lust transmutation, and magnetic masculinity—if any of those topics hit home, this video is your field manual. Inside, coach Nikolas Das breaks down exactly how practicing semen retention and non-ejaculatory sex can end the dopamine loop of endless porn, ignite testosterone, and channel …

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Live Show Mastery: IEMs, Gig Survival, and SuperFan Power 1:07:47

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This week you’ll hear how making the leap to in-ear monitors isn’t just swapping gear—it’s like learning a whole new instrument. You’ll pick up real-world tactics for keeping the band rolling when a member’s sick or injured, including the art of pulling in a last-minute sub. You’ll face the hard truth about whether the show really must go on and le…

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42 - 5 Signs Your Relationship is DYING and How to SAVE It 27:07

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You said what needed to be said—but somehow, you still feel miles apart.This video unpacks the real reason most relationships fall apart—and it’s not what you think. It’s not yelling, cheating, or even the argument itself. It’s the emotional disconnection after conflict that slowly erodes intimacy and trust. If you’ve ever felt like you're walking …

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That’s Not Gain, It’s Just a Hot Mic 55:15

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Want to trigger backing tracks live from your iPad or iPhone? This episode of Gig Gab is your playbook. Dave walks you through listener-recommended apps like Stage Traxx 3, Go Button, and forScore for managing clicks and cues with precision. Whether you’re solo or in a band, these tools can keep your show tight. Plus, Gear Gab digs into smart stage…

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40 - The Dark Side of Looksmaxxing: Why It's Breaking So Many Men 11:30

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What if the glow-up you’re chasing is actually masking your deepest wound? Looksmaxxing promises power—but delivers pressure, shame, and identity collapse. In this video, we expose what’s really behind the obsession with facial symmetry and “Chad status.” It's not vanity. It’s a survival strategy born from disconnection and despair. Before you opti…

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41 - The #1 Relationship Mistake That's KILLING Your Love Life 1:44:54

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We don’t shut down because we don’t care. We shut down because we don’t feel safe.This isn’t just a “man thing” — it’s a human thing. In this episode, we explore the subtle, often unseen patterns that cause us to pull away from the people we love most. From unspoken fears to survival strategies masked as silence, this conversation unpacks what’s re…

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Aggressive Ambition: Dae Bogan’s Journey to The MLC 1:03:51

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You think you understand music royalties? Think again. Dae Bogan from The MLC breaks it all down with Dave Hamilton on this week’s Gig Gab. From the ancient days of piano rolls to the tangled web of modern streaming, you’ll learn how mechanical royalties differ from performance rights and why most artists are leaving money on the table. The MLC—bor…

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He's The Rhombus King! 1:13:25

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When the skies open and the gig’s a wash, how do you keep the energy alive? Mike Schulte joins Dave Hamilton to break down how The Pork Tornadoes handled a rainout, what happens when the audience doesn’t get the memo, and why your contract better say who’s in charge. From chaotic “throw and go” setups to must-do line checks, this episode reminds yo…

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39 - The Real Reason “Nice Guys” Stay Stuck (And What It Costs You) w/ Dr. Robert Glover 1:13:30

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You were told being a good man would lead to love, respect, and connection. But if you're honest, all it's brought is resentment, rejection, and feeling like you're never enough. In this raw conversation with Dr. Robert Glover, we expose the hidden patterns sabotaging high-performing men—especially the covert contracts silently destroying your rela…

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Tuning Up the Rockstars: Chinner's Roadie Chronicles (Vol. 1) 49:57

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Ever wonder what it’s like to roll through the golden age of rock with the crew behind the legends? On this week’s Gig Gab, Chinner Winstead takes you backstage—from autograph sessions with Tom Petty to chaos-control on tour with Nantucket. You’ll trace the path from bar band to global tours with Lenny Kravitz, Phil Collins, Georgia Satellites, and…

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38 - The #1 Mistake Men Make Trying to ‘Keep the Peace’ in Relationships 5:03

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You think you're being the calm one. The grounded one. But avoiding hard conversations doesn’t preserve peace—it breeds quiet resentment and kills intimacy. This video unpacks the hidden cost of emotional avoidance and redefines masculine leadership as the courage to face tension, not flee from it. If you've ever felt like you're doing everything r…

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Crash Cymbals and Contracts: Billy Cuthrell’s Lesson in Music Business Success 1:20:53

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Ever wonder how a skater punk becomes a music industry powerhouse? This week, Billy Cuthrell joins Dave Hamilton to share how his drumming journey kicked off with a Ludwig kit and a dose of Zeppelin, then scaled into creating a chain of four music schools and a million lessons taught annually. From being Music Inc. Magazine’s “Retail Doctor” to pio…

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37 - The hidden pain men carry AND WHY SILENCE ISN'T STRENGTH 1:03:39

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There’s a silence most men carry—one shaped by shame, trauma, and a world that taught us to armor up instead of open up.In this raw and revelatory conversation, Dr. Gary Barker unpacks the unspoken pain men inherit and the quiet crisis of emotional disconnection shaping modern masculinity. From war zones to boardrooms, he’s seen the same wounds… an…

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Click Tracks, Tribute Acts, and $20 Hacks: Gig Smarts with Corey Manske 1:06:48

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You’re not alone if you’re running a click track on stage—more and more musicians are embracing it, and for good reason. This week on Gig Gab, Corey Manske joins Dave Hamilton to unpack how using a click can reduce stress, keep your band tight, and help you Always Be Performing. From essential stage gear like chapstick and a tape measure (you’ll ge…

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36 - Why Society Is Failing Men (And No One Talks About It) 8:02

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Why are so many men feeling lost, angry, or disconnected? It’s not because masculinity is toxic — it’s because we’ve removed the very things that helped boys grow into strong, mature men.In this video, I break down:- Why masculinity isn’t the problem — immaturity is- How fatherlessness, lack of mentorship, and no rite of passage created a crisis in…

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Consistency is Key: P-Funk North's Road to Success 57:42

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This week on Gig Gab, you’re diving deep with the (almost!) full crew from P-Funk North as they share what keeps their reggae funk machine moving. From twice-a-week rehearsals to the relentless grind of networking and playing out regularly, they prove that consistency and camaraderie build longevity. You’ll hear how rejection turns into rocket fuel…

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35: Emotional Mastery for Men: How to Lead Without Losing Yourself 7:48

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Are you a high-performing man who's mastered control, but feels like you're cracking underneath it? This video is for leaders, founders, and high-achieving men who appear strong on the outside but silently struggle with stress, emotional shutdown, and burnout behind the scenes.In this video, you'll discover: • Why emotional mastery—not emotional su…

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Sphere Sound Unpacked: Robert Scovill’s Deep Dive into Immersive Mixing 1:19:51

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Step inside Sphere with Robert Scovill as he rejoins Dave on Gig Gab to dissect the art—and science—of immersive live sound. From his early days quad-mixing Rush to commanding 32 channels through Avid’s S6L with Meyer’s Spacemap Go, Scovill walks you through prepping for Sphere with simulators, Holoplot mapping, and object-based mixing. You’ll hear…

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34. He Lost Everything—Then Found His Purpose Through Faith 38:01

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What happens when you lose everything—your money, your identity, your sense of purpose?In this raw and powerful conversation, we sit down with a man who hit rock bottom: $200,000 in debt, lost in lust, drowning in shame. But instead of breaking, he broke open. What followed was a radical awakening through faith, fatherhood, and purpose-driven leade…

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Tour Prep, Gear Gab, and Stage Smarts with Buddy Gibbons 1:15:15

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Buddy Gibbons returns to Gig Gab to share how he’s gearing up for a nostalgia-fueled tour with Stephen Glickman and the Big Time Rush fanbase. From rollerblading around Wembley to off-road RC cars for downtime, Buddy’s prepping body and mind for the grind. He and Dave dig into how playing without a click can feel naked, why RokTempo and Russian Dra…

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33. Why She Lost Attraction: The Brutal Truth No One Tells You 8:44

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Most men don’t realize it—but the reason she’s pulling away isn’t about sex or success. It’s because she can’t feel you anymore. Emotional repression, overthinking, or “being the rock”... it’s killing your connection. In this video, I’ll show you why real strength isn’t about staying shut down—and how reclaiming your emotional power can actually sa…

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The Pork Tornadoes Playbook: Mike Schulte on Building a Successful Band 1:03:18

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This week on Gig Gab, you’re diving deep with Mike Schulte of The Pork Tornadoes as he joins Dave Hamilton to share real-world insights on making your gigs—and your band—better. You’ll get actionable tips on using splitter snakes without frying your gear, plus a no-nonsense breakdown of how standing (or not) while singing can shape your stage prese…

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32. From Corrections to Clarity: One Man's Journey Back to Himself with Chris Goguen 1:34:38

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What happens when the life you built starts to feel like a prison? In this raw and powerful conversation, Chris Goguen shares his journey from a decade working in corrections to rediscovering purpose, fatherhood, and emotional freedom. He opens up about the cost of living out of alignment, the identity crisis that nearly broke him, and the healing …

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The DIY Booking Revolution: GigSalad’s Impact on Musicians 48:03

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GigSalad’s Mark Steiner joins this week’s Gig Gab to trace his wild ride from stage actor to CEO, revealing how a children’s theater gig and a teddy bear business ultimately led to launching the go-to platform for booking live talent. You’ll hear how a “happy accident” turned into a company that helps 110,000+ performers get paid. From the Glenn Mi…

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31 . 5 Truths Every High-Performing Man Needs to Hear 13:11

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Most people chase success. But after working with over 100 high-performing men I’ve seen what’s behind the curtain. This video uncovers the 5 brutal truths that successful men rarely talk about. The emotional numbness. The constant proving. The relationships quietly falling apart while the business thrives. If you feel like you’ve built a life that…

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The Mallett Brothers’ DIY Formula: 2,000 Superfans and 120 Shows a Year 58:30

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You’re about to get the roadmap from Luke and Will Mallett of The Mallett Brothers on what it really takes to make music a career. From playing 120 shows a year to building a loyal tribe of 2,000 superfans, the brothers break down how live gigs aren’t just part of the job—they are the job. You’ll hear how they’ve learned to follow the seasons, bala…

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30. 5 Toxic Lies Keeping You Trapped (And How to Break Free) 9:00

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The success you've chased is killing you from the inside. I know—I almost lost everything before discovering these 5 masculine lies. In this video, I expose the toxic beliefs trapping high-performing men in silent suffering. You'll discover why "toughing it out" leaves you brittle and alone, why achievements never fill the void, and why vulnerabili…

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Real-World Band Hacks: IEM Mixes, Click Track Starts, and Calendar Control 57:53

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If your band’s live setup feels more like organized chaos than controlled power, this episode’s for you. We’re diving into real-world band hacks that actually make a difference—from tightening up your IEM mixes with split snakes, to using a click track to start songs like a pro. You’ll also hear why phantom power isn’t the villain it’s made out to …

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29. The Hidden Truth About Why 66% of Young Men Are Single (It's Not What You Think) 8:56

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Two-thirds of young men are single while dating apps have never been more popular. The disconnect isn't about your profile—it's about the foundation that makes authentic connection possible. In this video, I break down the shocking statistics behind the modern dating crisis and reveal why so many high-performing men are struggling to form meaningfu…

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From Prince to Gaga to JJ Lin: Scottie Baldwin's Audio Adventures 1:23:23

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What’s it like going from drum tech to mixing stadium shows for legends? In this week’s Gig Gab, you join Scottie Baldwin and Dave Hamilton as they dive into the artistry behind live sound. From getting the call from Prince’s drummer to Sheila E nudging him toward sound, Scottie shares tricks like frequency gating and translating wild artist reques…

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Is Your Band Bookable? ECE’s Checklist for Success 1:10:40

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This week on Gig Gab, you’re in for a deep dive into the gigging grind with guest co-host Derek Patten from ECE, EastCoast Entertainment. You’ll learn exactly what makes a band bookable—from tight chops to killer promo, a sharp social presence, and professional polish. If you’re not posting on Instagram, you’re not even in the conversation. Whether…

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28. The Dangerous Truth Behind Netflix's Most Watched Show 14:13

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What if a Netflix drama was shaping real government policy… based on a story that’s not even true? Adolescence, a fictional show about a 13-year-old boy who stabs a girl after being exposed to online “manosphere” content, is now being discussed by the UK Prime Minister as something students should watch in school.But there’s one huge problem: the s…

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Monique Powell of Save Ferris: Ska, Struggles, and Sweet Comebacks 57:45

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Monique Powell of Save Ferris joins you for a no-holds-barred dive into the grind, grit, and glory behind making a band thrive. From opera training to ska dreams, Monique shares how preparation and passion powered her transformation from “Mo Sing Song” to full-on band manager (and back again…and forth again). You’ll hear how she navigated shifting …

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27. Become a STRONGER Man by Ditching the Nice Guy Act 10:29

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You’ve been the nice guy your whole life—saying yes, avoiding conflict, trying to be liked. But deep down, you know it’s not working. In this video, I’ll show you how to stop people-pleasing and start living with self-respect, confidence, and purpose. If you feel invisible, stuck, or unappreciated... this isn’t about becoming someone else. It’s abo…

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The Vaultmeister’s Voice: Joe Travers on Zappa, Duran Duran, and the Power of Performance 1:09:08

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This week, you’ll dive headfirst into the wild ride of Joe Travers’ drumming journey—from pounding out St. Patrick’s Day gigs to landing his dream job playing Zappa’s music. Joe shares how knowing exactly what you want—and fearlessly putting yourself out there—can open doors you never imagined. You’ll hear what it’s like grooving through complex Za…

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26. 3 Mistakes NICE GUYS Make that Destroy Their Relationships 9:20

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You think being a "Nice Guy" makes you a good man—but what if it’s secretly draining your confidence, relationships, and happiness? In this video, I reveal the 3 hidden costs of people-pleasing and how they keep you stuck in frustration, resentment, and fear. Most men don’t realize how much their need for approval is sabotaging their lives—until it…