You think being a "Nice Guy" makes you a good man—but what if it’s secretly draining your confidence, relationships, and happiness? In this video, I reveal the 3 hidden costs of people-pleasing and how they keep you stuck in frustration, resentment, and fear.

Most men don’t realize how much their need for approval is sabotaging their lives—until it’s too late. If you’re tired of feeling disconnected, unappreciated, or powerless, this is your wake-up call.

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Timestamps:

0:00 - Hook: The hidden cost of being a Nice Guy

1:30 - Cost #1: Losing Yourself (The Emotional Cost)

5:15 - Cost #2: Straining Your Relationships (The Relational Cost)

9:45 - Cost #3: Living in Fear (The Psychological Cost)

14:00 - How to Reclaim Your Power + Next Steps