This week we took some time do dissect a clip of TD Jakes sermon stating that women are being raised to be men and are applauded for their masculine behaviors. He proceeds to list a set of behaviors that he believes women in society are applauded for and they are all very off-putting characteristics of men. We discuss whether or not there is any truth to what TD Jakes said. What are the barriers to men marrying successful women? Are black relationships really in danger and our black families struggling because of the inability for black men to sustain relationships with successful black women? Tell Mikell speaks on issues that manifest in relationships are usually based on expectations and not based on what has actually been articulated. Are black men and women expecting too much and not articulating enough and communicating enough in relationships?