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Cradled in Hope

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Welcome to the When Grief Comes Home podcast. We're glad you're here. This podcast supports parents who are grieving a spouse, partner, or child while helping their children who are living through the loss of a parent or sibling. With personal grief stories and professional guidance, we offer parents practical tips for supporting their child who is grieving while caring for their own grief.

Hope doesn’t erase grief—it gives it somewhere to go. We sit down with Ashley Oplinger, founder and executive director of Bridget’s Cradles and host of Cradled in Hope, to trace how a handmade cradle in a Wichita hospital became a nationwide lifeline for more than 30,000 bereaved families each year. Ashley shares Bridget’s story with unflinching honesty, opening space for the raw questions parents carry after miscarriage and stillbirth: Where is God? Why does guilt cling to my body? How do I live with an empty nursery and a full heart?
Together we explore a practical, faith‑rooted path through loss. Ashley explains how she moved from feeling forsaken to trusting God’s character, flipping the script so scripture shapes thoughts and feelings instead of letting pain define who God is. We talk about the ministry of presence, what to say (and what to avoid), and simple survival tools for the hard nights—protein when meals feel impossible, opening the blinds, and listening to the Psalms when reading is too heavy. Ashley also offers a clear, comforting vision of heaven and the new earth, where reunion is real and embodied, and why “grateful and grieving” can exist at the same time without cancelling each other out.
Ashley also honors her father, SRG, who was killed by a drunk driver, and shares how drumming became therapy—turning anger into rhythm and engaging the brain much like EMDR. If you or someone you love is navigating pregnancy or infant loss, you’ll find gentle wisdom, practical guidance, and resources: support groups, free ebooks, and Ashley’s new book, Cradled in Hope. Listen, share with a friend who needs it, and help us reach more parents—subscribe, leave a review, and tell us: what helps you hold both joy and sorrow today?

Order the book When Grief Comes Home https://a.co/d/ijaiP5L

Send us a text

For more information on Jessica’s House or for additional resources, please go to jessicashouse.org

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Chapters

1. Welcome & Book Context (00:00:00)

2. Meet Ashley Opliger (00:01:01)

3. Bridget’s Story and Hospital Moment (00:02:28)

4. Birth of Bridget’s Cradles Ministry (00:05:45)

5. Wrestling With God and Theology (00:08:32)

6. Finding God’s Presence in Pain (00:13:00)

7. Guilt, Shame, and Self‑Grace (00:17:12)

8. Heaven, Eternity, and Hope (00:21:07)

9. Holding Joy and Sorrow Together (00:25:08)

10. From One Cradle to 1,600 Hospitals (00:28:03)

11. Mid‑show Break & Resources (00:30:27)

12. How to Show Up for Grievers (00:36:41)

13. Night Grief: Practical Survival (00:41:00)

14. Remembering SRG: Ashley’s Dad (00:46:00)

15. Drumming as Therapy and EMDR‑like Rhythm (00:52:00)

16. Where to Find Support & Closing Thanks (00:56:10)

17. Rate, Review, and Resource Reminders (00:57:22)

25 episodes

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Content provided by Erin Leigh Nelson, Colleen Montague LMFT, and Brad Quillen, Erin Leigh Nelson, Colleen Montague LMFT, and Brad Quillen. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Erin Leigh Nelson, Colleen Montague LMFT, and Brad Quillen, Erin Leigh Nelson, Colleen Montague LMFT, and Brad Quillen or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://podcastplayer.com/legal.

Welcome to the When Grief Comes Home podcast. We're glad you're here. This podcast supports parents who are grieving a spouse, partner, or child while helping their children who are living through the loss of a parent or sibling. With personal grief stories and professional guidance, we offer parents practical tips for supporting their child who is grieving while caring for their own grief.

Hope doesn’t erase grief—it gives it somewhere to go. We sit down with Ashley Oplinger, founder and executive director of Bridget’s Cradles and host of Cradled in Hope, to trace how a handmade cradle in a Wichita hospital became a nationwide lifeline for more than 30,000 bereaved families each year. Ashley shares Bridget’s story with unflinching honesty, opening space for the raw questions parents carry after miscarriage and stillbirth: Where is God? Why does guilt cling to my body? How do I live with an empty nursery and a full heart?
Together we explore a practical, faith‑rooted path through loss. Ashley explains how she moved from feeling forsaken to trusting God’s character, flipping the script so scripture shapes thoughts and feelings instead of letting pain define who God is. We talk about the ministry of presence, what to say (and what to avoid), and simple survival tools for the hard nights—protein when meals feel impossible, opening the blinds, and listening to the Psalms when reading is too heavy. Ashley also offers a clear, comforting vision of heaven and the new earth, where reunion is real and embodied, and why “grateful and grieving” can exist at the same time without cancelling each other out.
Ashley also honors her father, SRG, who was killed by a drunk driver, and shares how drumming became therapy—turning anger into rhythm and engaging the brain much like EMDR. If you or someone you love is navigating pregnancy or infant loss, you’ll find gentle wisdom, practical guidance, and resources: support groups, free ebooks, and Ashley’s new book, Cradled in Hope. Listen, share with a friend who needs it, and help us reach more parents—subscribe, leave a review, and tell us: what helps you hold both joy and sorrow today?

Order the book When Grief Comes Home https://a.co/d/ijaiP5L

Send us a text

For more information on Jessica’s House or for additional resources, please go to jessicashouse.org

  continue reading

Chapters

1. Welcome & Book Context (00:00:00)

2. Meet Ashley Opliger (00:01:01)

3. Bridget’s Story and Hospital Moment (00:02:28)

4. Birth of Bridget’s Cradles Ministry (00:05:45)

5. Wrestling With God and Theology (00:08:32)

6. Finding God’s Presence in Pain (00:13:00)

7. Guilt, Shame, and Self‑Grace (00:17:12)

8. Heaven, Eternity, and Hope (00:21:07)

9. Holding Joy and Sorrow Together (00:25:08)

10. From One Cradle to 1,600 Hospitals (00:28:03)

11. Mid‑show Break & Resources (00:30:27)

12. How to Show Up for Grievers (00:36:41)

13. Night Grief: Practical Survival (00:41:00)

14. Remembering SRG: Ashley’s Dad (00:46:00)

15. Drumming as Therapy and EMDR‑like Rhythm (00:52:00)

16. Where to Find Support & Closing Thanks (00:56:10)

17. Rate, Review, and Resource Reminders (00:57:22)

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