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66: Why You Feel Worse After Trying to Be Better

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We’ve all tried to punish ourselves into better behavior. Telling ourselves, "You only get to have or enjoy this thing if you DON'T do that." But does it ever actually work?

In this episode, we explore the deeper cost of self-punishment and how it silently erodes our confidence, worsens chronic skin picking, and holds us back from true growth. If you've struggled with perfectionism, this ones for you.

Here’s what you’ll learn:

  • Why punishing yourself doesn’t lead to lasting change (and often backfires)
  • How childhood conditioning around mistakes wires us for shame
  • The link between shame, perfectionism, and chronic skin picking
  • What radical self-responsibility really means and why it’s not the same as self-blame
  • A new, grounded way to handle mistakes that builds confidence instead of eroding it

🌟Ready to dive deep into your healing? Click here to learn more about the ground-breaking program - STRENGTH - the only program that is designed to help you heal from, rather than just manage, chronic skin picking

🌟Take your first step today and click here to join us in the FREE 7 Day Healing Loop Challenge where you learn the 3 fundamental skills needed to build confidence and begin finding freedom from skin picking

  continue reading

66 episodes

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Manage episode 490500110 series 3557268
Content provided by Raffaela. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Raffaela or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://podcastplayer.com/legal.

We’ve all tried to punish ourselves into better behavior. Telling ourselves, "You only get to have or enjoy this thing if you DON'T do that." But does it ever actually work?

In this episode, we explore the deeper cost of self-punishment and how it silently erodes our confidence, worsens chronic skin picking, and holds us back from true growth. If you've struggled with perfectionism, this ones for you.

Here’s what you’ll learn:

  • Why punishing yourself doesn’t lead to lasting change (and often backfires)
  • How childhood conditioning around mistakes wires us for shame
  • The link between shame, perfectionism, and chronic skin picking
  • What radical self-responsibility really means and why it’s not the same as self-blame
  • A new, grounded way to handle mistakes that builds confidence instead of eroding it

🌟Ready to dive deep into your healing? Click here to learn more about the ground-breaking program - STRENGTH - the only program that is designed to help you heal from, rather than just manage, chronic skin picking

🌟Take your first step today and click here to join us in the FREE 7 Day Healing Loop Challenge where you learn the 3 fundamental skills needed to build confidence and begin finding freedom from skin picking

  continue reading

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