We Are Both Sides: Finding Wholeness in a World That Demands You Choose
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The invisible war raging through our society isn't about politics or technology—it's about the fundamental duality of human nature. In this thought-provoking exploration, Jay Floyd breaks down how we're collectively torn between two powerful forces: the cold, calculating, results-driven side that dominated much of the 20th century, and the warm, empathetic, relationship-centered approach that has gained prominence in recent decades.
Drawing from personal experience as both a leader and coach in the tech world, Jay shares a profound insight: this isn't a battle where one side should or even can win. The pendulum of human behavior swings naturally between these poles, with each representing vital aspects of our shared humanity. When one dominates too heavily, the other becomes invisible, creating backlash and division. "That's not hypocrisy," Jay explains, "that's humanity."
What makes this episode particularly powerful is its call to wholeness. Rather than choosing sides in this cultural war, Jay challenges listeners to recognize the complex interplay of these forces within themselves. The executive who appears cold but cries in secret. The empathetic coach who negotiates fiercely when protecting their rates. These aren't contradictions—they're complementary facets of being fully human. In a world obsessed with picking sides, embracing your complete self might be the rarest and most revolutionary act possible. Consider where you might be suppressing part of yourself, and what genuine wholeness could look like in your life and leadership.
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Chapters
1. Introduction and Podcast Growth (00:00:00)
2. The War Between Two Sides (00:02:18)
3. Cold vs. Warm: Historical Context (00:04:42)
4. The Pendulum of Human Behavior (00:08:15)
5. The Complexity of Being Human (00:13:27)
6. A Call to Wholeness (00:18:13)
7. Final Thoughts on Being Rare (00:21:32)
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