In this episode, I share a personal moment that reminded me how powerful a simple pause can be. One of my kids was overwhelmed and sobbing, and my first instinct was to judge the reaction as disproportionate. Instead of responding from that place, I chose to stay quiet, give space, and return later with calm and empathy. It was a reminder that our first thoughts are not always the ones that serve us or the people we love. Pausing helps us choose intentional thoughts that strengthen connection, support emotional regulation, and move us forward with clarity.