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Bonus Coaching Session: How to Support Your Child’s Relationship with an Abusive Co-Parent (Without Gaslighting Them)

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In this week’s Friday Coaching Corner, I respond to a mom’s heartfelt question that so many survivors share:

“How do I support my children’s relationship with their dad—because the court says I have to—while knowing he is emotionally and psychologically abusing them every week?”

This episode dives deep into one of the hardest balancing acts for protective parents: offering emotional honesty and safety without crossing into parental alienation.

You’ll hear strategies and validation around:

  • How to build felt safety for your children when the other home is unsafe.
  • Why it’s vital not to gaslight your kids—and what to say instead.
  • How to reflect what you see (“Your body looks like it needs to move after visits”) instead of judging or rescuing.
  • Using simple rituals and routines to help kids regulate after contact with the abusive parent.
  • How to teach emotional intelligence and discernment so your kids can identify safe people and unsafe behaviors.
  • Ways to contrast your safe home environment with the other parent’s behavior—without speaking negatively about them.
  • The truth that children need one consistent, unconditional, loving caregiver to build resilience—and that person can be you.

This episode is a compassionate guide for every survivor-parent navigating the impossible tension between protecting your children and being forced to “support” a relationship that hurts them.

Please leave us a review or rating and follow/subscribe to the show. This helps the show get out to more people.
If you want to chat more about this topic I would love to continue our conversation over on Instagram! @risingbeyondpc
If you want to support the show you may do so here at, Buy Me A Coffee. Thank you! We love being able to make this information accessible to you and your community.
If you've been looking for a supportive community of women going through the topics we cover, head over to our website to learn more about the Rising Beyond Community. - https://www.risingbeyondpc.com/

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Manage episode 516934757 series 3604547
Content provided by Sybil Cummin, MA, LPC, ACS, Sybil Cummin, MA, LPC, and ACS. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Sybil Cummin, MA, LPC, ACS, Sybil Cummin, MA, LPC, and ACS or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://podcastplayer.com/legal.

In this week’s Friday Coaching Corner, I respond to a mom’s heartfelt question that so many survivors share:

“How do I support my children’s relationship with their dad—because the court says I have to—while knowing he is emotionally and psychologically abusing them every week?”

This episode dives deep into one of the hardest balancing acts for protective parents: offering emotional honesty and safety without crossing into parental alienation.

You’ll hear strategies and validation around:

  • How to build felt safety for your children when the other home is unsafe.
  • Why it’s vital not to gaslight your kids—and what to say instead.
  • How to reflect what you see (“Your body looks like it needs to move after visits”) instead of judging or rescuing.
  • Using simple rituals and routines to help kids regulate after contact with the abusive parent.
  • How to teach emotional intelligence and discernment so your kids can identify safe people and unsafe behaviors.
  • Ways to contrast your safe home environment with the other parent’s behavior—without speaking negatively about them.
  • The truth that children need one consistent, unconditional, loving caregiver to build resilience—and that person can be you.

This episode is a compassionate guide for every survivor-parent navigating the impossible tension between protecting your children and being forced to “support” a relationship that hurts them.

Please leave us a review or rating and follow/subscribe to the show. This helps the show get out to more people.
If you want to chat more about this topic I would love to continue our conversation over on Instagram! @risingbeyondpc
If you want to support the show you may do so here at, Buy Me A Coffee. Thank you! We love being able to make this information accessible to you and your community.
If you've been looking for a supportive community of women going through the topics we cover, head over to our website to learn more about the Rising Beyond Community. - https://www.risingbeyondpc.com/

Where to find more from Rising Beyond:
Rising Beyond Facebook
Rising Beyond LinkedIn
Rising Beyond Pinterest
If you're interested in guesting on the show please fill out this form - https://forms.gle/CSvLWWyZxmJ8GGQu7
Enjoy some of our freebies!

  continue reading

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