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218. Resentment, Regret, and Disillusionment: What to Do When You Feel Let Down
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Have you ever bought something — a class, a program, a tool — full of hope… Only to feel regret, resentment, or disillusionment when it didn’t work the way you thought it would?
You’re not alone.
In this episode, Dara explores what’s really going on when we feel let down by something we’ve invested in — and how those emotions are often rooted in a misunderstanding of what we expected from ourselves.
From quilting tools to coaching programs, from parenting regrets to free-motion quilting frustration, Dara walks you through a powerful reframing:
Why resentment is a sign of unmet expectations
How to label your emotions honestly so you can move through them
The sneaky way perfectionism and victimhood can keep you stuck
What Elizabeth Gilbert, chocolate chip cookies, and Christmas planning all have in common
Why your emotional weight must be addressed before lasting physical change can happen
If you want to stop abandoning yourself every time something feels hard — this episode will help you turn pain into perspective, and regret into power.
Want to see the power of coaching in a free live coaching call? Grab your spot (this is a limited time offer!) - https://dara-tomasson-coaching.mykajabi.com/sample-coaching-calls
Or if you want to take the next step and see if Dara is the right coach for you, book a free curiosity call with her -
https://connectwithdara.as.me/schedule/c1f1dcdc/appointment/26364389/calendar/6005908?appointmentTypeIds[]=26364389
219 episodes
Manage episode 508424508 series 2964084
Have you ever bought something — a class, a program, a tool — full of hope… Only to feel regret, resentment, or disillusionment when it didn’t work the way you thought it would?
You’re not alone.
In this episode, Dara explores what’s really going on when we feel let down by something we’ve invested in — and how those emotions are often rooted in a misunderstanding of what we expected from ourselves.
From quilting tools to coaching programs, from parenting regrets to free-motion quilting frustration, Dara walks you through a powerful reframing:
Why resentment is a sign of unmet expectations
How to label your emotions honestly so you can move through them
The sneaky way perfectionism and victimhood can keep you stuck
What Elizabeth Gilbert, chocolate chip cookies, and Christmas planning all have in common
Why your emotional weight must be addressed before lasting physical change can happen
If you want to stop abandoning yourself every time something feels hard — this episode will help you turn pain into perspective, and regret into power.
Want to see the power of coaching in a free live coaching call? Grab your spot (this is a limited time offer!) - https://dara-tomasson-coaching.mykajabi.com/sample-coaching-calls
Or if you want to take the next step and see if Dara is the right coach for you, book a free curiosity call with her -
https://connectwithdara.as.me/schedule/c1f1dcdc/appointment/26364389/calendar/6005908?appointmentTypeIds[]=26364389
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