I’m Not Who I Was Before—and I Like Her. How Motherhood and Stillbirth Transformed My Identity
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In this deeply personal episode, Vallen Webb explores the profound identity shifts that accompany motherhood, particularly in the face of loss. She shares her journey of transformation from a carefree individual to a mother who has experienced the devastating loss of a child. Through her narrative, Vallen emphasizes the importance of radical personal responsibility, the complexities of grief, and the necessity of embracing every version of oneself. The conversation highlights the resilience that emerges from pain and the journey of healing and self-discovery that follows.
Takeaways
Motherhood brings significant identity changes.
Experiencing loss can lead to profound personal transformation.
Grief can serve as a catalyst for growth and resilience.
It's important to honor the memory of lost loved ones.
Pregnancy after loss is filled with complex emotions.
Self-love and acceptance are crucial in the healing process.
You are allowed to grieve the person you were before loss.
Finding purpose in pain can lead to meaningful change.
Every version of yourself deserves love and recognition.
Small steps can lead to significant healing over time.
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