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225. Why She Doesn’t Respect You (And How to Change That)
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Let’s be real—if your wife doesn’t respect you, it’s not just frustrating… it’s devastating. But here’s the harder truth: it’s probably your fault.
In this raw and unfiltered episode of The Impossible Life, Nick and Garrett pull no punches as they unpack why so many men struggle with respect in their marriage—and what it actually takes to earn it back.
This isn’t about ego or dominance. It’s about becoming a man your wife can trust, honor, and follow. The good news? Respect is rebuildable—but only if you're ready to face the truth.
🔥 In This Episode:
“If you don’t respect yourself, why would she?”
“Your wife is responding to the man you’ve trained her to believe you are.”
“If your yes doesn’t mean yes, your leadership doesn’t mean anything.”
“You don’t need her submission—you need to become worth following.”
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Level up your greatest asset with us in Mindset Mastery. How you think will change everything in your life. Click here to learn more.
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In this raw and unfiltered episode of The Impossible Life, Nick and Garrett pull no punches as they unpack why so many men struggle with respect in their marriage—and what it actually takes to earn it back.
This isn’t about ego or dominance. It’s about becoming a man your wife can trust, honor, and follow. The good news? Respect is rebuildable—but only if you're ready to face the truth.
🔥 In This Episode:
- The #1 reason women lose respect for their husbands (hint: it’s not lack of income)
- Why your wife's trust and admiration are tied to your discipline and consistency
- How men subconsciously train their wives to either trust or dismiss them
- Why nice guys often finish last in marriage—and what biblical masculinity actually looks like
- The difference between control and leadership
- Why integrity > intensity when it comes to earning back respect
“If you don’t respect yourself, why would she?”
“Your wife is responding to the man you’ve trained her to believe you are.”
“If your yes doesn’t mean yes, your leadership doesn’t mean anything.”
“You don’t need her submission—you need to become worth following.”
Level up your life with IDLife nutrition by clicking here.
Level up your greatest asset with us in Mindset Mastery. How you think will change everything in your life. Click here to learn more.
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Content provided by Nick Surface & Garrett Unclebach, Nick Surface, and Garrett Unclebach. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Nick Surface & Garrett Unclebach, Nick Surface, and Garrett Unclebach or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://podcastplayer.com/legal.
Let’s be real—if your wife doesn’t respect you, it’s not just frustrating… it’s devastating. But here’s the harder truth: it’s probably your fault.
In this raw and unfiltered episode of The Impossible Life, Nick and Garrett pull no punches as they unpack why so many men struggle with respect in their marriage—and what it actually takes to earn it back.
This isn’t about ego or dominance. It’s about becoming a man your wife can trust, honor, and follow. The good news? Respect is rebuildable—but only if you're ready to face the truth.
🔥 In This Episode:
“If you don’t respect yourself, why would she?”
“Your wife is responding to the man you’ve trained her to believe you are.”
“If your yes doesn’t mean yes, your leadership doesn’t mean anything.”
“You don’t need her submission—you need to become worth following.”
Level up your life with IDLife nutrition by clicking here.
Level up your greatest asset with us in Mindset Mastery. How you think will change everything in your life. Click here to learn more.
…
continue reading
In this raw and unfiltered episode of The Impossible Life, Nick and Garrett pull no punches as they unpack why so many men struggle with respect in their marriage—and what it actually takes to earn it back.
This isn’t about ego or dominance. It’s about becoming a man your wife can trust, honor, and follow. The good news? Respect is rebuildable—but only if you're ready to face the truth.
🔥 In This Episode:
- The #1 reason women lose respect for their husbands (hint: it’s not lack of income)
- Why your wife's trust and admiration are tied to your discipline and consistency
- How men subconsciously train their wives to either trust or dismiss them
- Why nice guys often finish last in marriage—and what biblical masculinity actually looks like
- The difference between control and leadership
- Why integrity > intensity when it comes to earning back respect
“If you don’t respect yourself, why would she?”
“Your wife is responding to the man you’ve trained her to believe you are.”
“If your yes doesn’t mean yes, your leadership doesn’t mean anything.”
“You don’t need her submission—you need to become worth following.”
Level up your life with IDLife nutrition by clicking here.
Level up your greatest asset with us in Mindset Mastery. How you think will change everything in your life. Click here to learn more.
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