22. Feel Like She's Always Winning? How to Beat the Ex By Changing the Game
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It feels like she's winning, doesn't it? Every time she ignores your boundaries, every time she lies and people believe her, every time she gets away with something – it feels like she’s winning and you're losing.
But what if that idea of winning versus losing is just keeping you trapped in her game?
The problem is that you're so focused on not letting her "get away with" it that you're accidentally sacrificing the very things you're trying to protect – your peace, your relationship, your goals, and your family's happiness.
Because every time you engage with her drama – you're playing her game, you’re giving her exactly what she wants.
In this episode, I'll show you how to win by changing the entire game so you're no longer playing by her rules.
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