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Tim Newman Speaks: Stop Wrecking Relationships with Bad Feedback
Manage episode 496247881 series 3552302
Ever walked out of a feedback session more confused, frustrated, or defensive than when you walked in? You’re not alone, and it’s probably not what was said, but how it was said.
In this episode of Speaking With Confidence, I break down the real reason most feedback sabotages relationships: it ignores personality. Using the DISC model, I walk through how different communication styles process feedback, and why a “feedback sandwich” just isn’t cutting it anymore.
From understanding the neurological triggers of defensiveness to using the SBI model (Situation, Behavior, Impact) to shape clearer conversations, I’ll show you how to turn your feedback from friction into fuel for real growth. We’ll also talk about why future-focused feedback works better, how to use active listening skills in tough conversations, and what it takes to become a powerful communicator who builds trust, even during hard talks.
This episode is for you if:
- You’re tired of feedback turning into a standoff
- You want to lead with empathy and clarity
- You’re working on your confidence in public speaking, or just in everyday conversations
We don’t get better by sugarcoating. We get better by communicating clearly, confidently, and with intention.
Want more? Download my free eBook The Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them and explore more powerful communication resources at TimNewmanSpeaks.com.
Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatch
Speaking With Confidence
Formula for Public Speaking
Facebook
Chapters
1. Podcast Introduction and Schedule Updates (00:00:00)
2. Why Most Feedback Fails (00:01:00)
3. The SBI Model for Constructive Feedback (00:04:42)
4. Tailoring Feedback to DISC Personalities (00:08:07)
5. Making Feedback Lead to Real Change (00:11:24)
68 episodes
Manage episode 496247881 series 3552302
Ever walked out of a feedback session more confused, frustrated, or defensive than when you walked in? You’re not alone, and it’s probably not what was said, but how it was said.
In this episode of Speaking With Confidence, I break down the real reason most feedback sabotages relationships: it ignores personality. Using the DISC model, I walk through how different communication styles process feedback, and why a “feedback sandwich” just isn’t cutting it anymore.
From understanding the neurological triggers of defensiveness to using the SBI model (Situation, Behavior, Impact) to shape clearer conversations, I’ll show you how to turn your feedback from friction into fuel for real growth. We’ll also talk about why future-focused feedback works better, how to use active listening skills in tough conversations, and what it takes to become a powerful communicator who builds trust, even during hard talks.
This episode is for you if:
- You’re tired of feedback turning into a standoff
- You want to lead with empathy and clarity
- You’re working on your confidence in public speaking, or just in everyday conversations
We don’t get better by sugarcoating. We get better by communicating clearly, confidently, and with intention.
Want more? Download my free eBook The Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them and explore more powerful communication resources at TimNewmanSpeaks.com.
Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatch
Speaking With Confidence
Formula for Public Speaking
Facebook
Chapters
1. Podcast Introduction and Schedule Updates (00:00:00)
2. Why Most Feedback Fails (00:01:00)
3. The SBI Model for Constructive Feedback (00:04:42)
4. Tailoring Feedback to DISC Personalities (00:08:07)
5. Making Feedback Lead to Real Change (00:11:24)
68 episodes
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