Ever feel the urge to “win” an argument with your kid and realize later nothing was learned, only lost? We sit down with licensed counselor and CEO Gino Titus Luciano to rethink conflict from the ground up—less power struggle, more problem solving. Gino brings experience spanning autism services, child welfare, correctional rehabilitation, and private practice to show why children copy what we model, not what we preach, and how accountability actually strengthens parental authority.
We unpack the superhero myth—the idea that good parents are flawless and never back down—and how it fuels doubling down when we’re wrong. Gino explains the science of emotions in plain language, showing how anger is often a fast response to hurt or fear. From there, we build practical tools: pause when emotions spike, name what you feel, and schedule the conversation to continue when both sides are ready. You’ll hear how forgiveness and consequences can work together, why yelling kills learning, and how “circle back” conversations create safety without sacrificing standards.
If you’ve handled conflict poorly and want to repair, Gino offers clear language to own your part, validate your child’s experience, and invite them into a shared plan for next time. We discuss collaborating with teens who test limits, using empathy without losing structure, and letting kids see us grow so they learn growth is normal. Expect actionable scripts, mindset shifts, and a calmer way to teach hard lessons that actually stick.
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