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Episode 4 What Makes a True Best Friend? The Spark, the Trust, and the Red Flags

What does it really mean to be a best friend—and how do you know when you've found one? In this heart-filled episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie dive into the emotional blueprint of lifelong friendship. From that first spark of connection to the quiet safety of being fully seen, they explore what makes a bestie bond unshakable.

They share personal stories, moments of laughter, and hard-won wisdom on loyalty, trust, and vulnerability. You’ll hear about the green flags that build lasting friendships—and the red ones we sometimes ignore.

In This Episode:

• How to recognize the “bestie spark” when it happens [03:45]
• Why emotional safety and loyalty matter most [08:20]
• The role of vulnerability in deepening trust [14:10]
• Red flags in friendships—and when to walk away [18:30]
• How to be the kind of friend you’d want to have [23:55]

Whether you’re holding on to your ride-or-die or still hoping to find your person, this episode is a celebration of bestie energy in its purest, most powerful form.

🎁 Bonus Segment: Stick around for Rapid Fire Bestie Questions and the closing anthem Definition of a Best Friend by Brooke August & Hannah Rose.
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👉 Follow Slightly Unsupervised on Apple Podcasts, leave a 5-star review, and tag your bestie—we dare you not to tear up.

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