In this episode of Ask Angela: Relationship Advice for Love After Trauma, Angela Amias responds to a listener who’s grown through self-reflection and personal responsibility but feels stuck with a spouse who avoids doing the same.

Angela explores: • Why trying to convince your partner to change often backfires • The difference between blame and honest self-reflection • What emotional responsibility looks like in healthy relationships • How to speak your truth without getting pulled into defensiveness • Why it’s not your job to manage your partner’s growth • What to do when your partner’s behavior hurts you—and they won’t acknowledge it

If you’ve ever felt frustrated by a partner who won’t own their part in relationship struggles, this episode offers clear, compassionate guidance for finding your voice, setting boundaries, and letting go of what isn’t yours to carry.

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