How To Change Others.

Transforming Others by Transforming Yourself—Practical Tools for Leadership, Family and Trust.

Too often, attempts to change others with arguments and pressure trigger resistance, defensiveness, or disengagement. This episode of the Self Realized, Shatter Your Limits Podcast with me, Linton Bergsen, reveals a radically different approach—activating real transformation through emotional presence, self-acceptance, and quiet leadership. Learn how your emotional state silently sets the tone others follow, impacting teams, family bonds, and personal relationships.

I re-frame the myth that change comes from convincing, controlling, or intense persuasion. Instead, discover the “mirror principle”: people reflect the energy you bring. Hear stories of a top performer redefining his relationships through calm intention, and a youth mentor unlocking breakthroughs by embodying belief—not anxiety. Explore a practical energy audit, a seven-day embodiment challenge, and a 24-hour experiment to reduce reactivity and spark authentic connection.

Find out why acceptance is the foundation of growth and how quiet certainty leads to breakthroughs in leadership, partnership, and parenting. Receive concrete prompts, transformation affirmations, and one re-framing question that shifts every interaction: Who am I inviting others to become through the way I show up?

If you’re ready to influence through presence, guide without pressure, and let your life become the quiet invitation for change, this episode is your blueprint. For meaningful growth, subscribe, share with someone seeking to spark transformation, and leave a review to help others discover the show. Your presence is the invitation—embody the message, and let’s grow together.

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