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Why Buyers Hate Being Sold To (and How to Fix It)

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The psychological concept of reactance explains why people resist being sold to, even when they genuinely want what you're offering. This resistance kicks in when people feel their freedom of choice is threatened during sales conversations.
• Understanding reactance in sales psychology - when buyers feel controlled, they instinctively push back
• Using the traffic light analogy - red light (talking about yourself) vs. green light (focusing on the customer)
• Warning signs of buyer resistance - quieter voice, shorter answers, evasive responses
• Three effective techniques to reduce sales resistance and keep buyers engaged
• Asking permission early and often during sales conversations
• Being mindful of language - avoiding controlling phrases like "you need to" or "you should"
• Cultivating genuine curiosity about the buyer's situation instead of assuming their needs
• The fishing analogy - giving buyers space to "swim" while guiding them toward a decision
• Positioning yourself as a problem solver rather than a salesperson
Download the free PDF with additional suggestions for making these approaches work in your sales conversations. Join our free 45-minute webinar where we cover three techniques that can make an immediate difference to your sales results.
Welcome to the podcast!

Support the show

If you have a sales problem you'd like to hear covered in a podcast, please contact me directly. Or, my sales training programme might help!
If you'd like help to improve your sales confidence, please jump onto my free (45 minute) on-demand webinar. I'll teach you three things you can apply immediately, including handling objections and closing a sale.
Graham Elliott

You can contact me at [email protected]

My website is www.salescraft.training
Please join my mailing list. You'll get all the news and latest offers.

Or... if you've found this helpful, please buy me a coffee!

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Chapters

1. Why Buyers Hate Being Sold To (and How to Fix It) (00:00:00)

2. Why People Hate Being Sold To (00:00:18)

3. The Traffic Light Sales Approach (00:02:44)

4. Three Techniques That Actually Work (00:05:28)

5. Becoming a Problem Solver (00:09:56)

6. Final Tips and Resources (00:15:36)

48 episodes

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Manage episode 498181017 series 3585590
Content provided by Graham Elliott. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Graham Elliott or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://podcastplayer.com/legal.

The psychological concept of reactance explains why people resist being sold to, even when they genuinely want what you're offering. This resistance kicks in when people feel their freedom of choice is threatened during sales conversations.
• Understanding reactance in sales psychology - when buyers feel controlled, they instinctively push back
• Using the traffic light analogy - red light (talking about yourself) vs. green light (focusing on the customer)
• Warning signs of buyer resistance - quieter voice, shorter answers, evasive responses
• Three effective techniques to reduce sales resistance and keep buyers engaged
• Asking permission early and often during sales conversations
• Being mindful of language - avoiding controlling phrases like "you need to" or "you should"
• Cultivating genuine curiosity about the buyer's situation instead of assuming their needs
• The fishing analogy - giving buyers space to "swim" while guiding them toward a decision
• Positioning yourself as a problem solver rather than a salesperson
Download the free PDF with additional suggestions for making these approaches work in your sales conversations. Join our free 45-minute webinar where we cover three techniques that can make an immediate difference to your sales results.
Welcome to the podcast!

Support the show

If you have a sales problem you'd like to hear covered in a podcast, please contact me directly. Or, my sales training programme might help!
If you'd like help to improve your sales confidence, please jump onto my free (45 minute) on-demand webinar. I'll teach you three things you can apply immediately, including handling objections and closing a sale.
Graham Elliott

You can contact me at [email protected]

My website is www.salescraft.training
Please join my mailing list. You'll get all the news and latest offers.

Or... if you've found this helpful, please buy me a coffee!

  continue reading

Chapters

1. Why Buyers Hate Being Sold To (and How to Fix It) (00:00:00)

2. Why People Hate Being Sold To (00:00:18)

3. The Traffic Light Sales Approach (00:02:44)

4. Three Techniques That Actually Work (00:05:28)

5. Becoming a Problem Solver (00:09:56)

6. Final Tips and Resources (00:15:36)

48 episodes

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