What happens when everything you've meticulously planned begins to unravel? For this successful tech executive, the illusion of control was dramatically dismantled through a series of profound losses and challenges spanning five years.
The conversation opens with her early formative loss—her father's death from cancer during her teenage years—which established her pattern of seeking control as protection against future pain. For nearly two decades, this strategy seemed effective. She built an impressive career alongside her husband in the tech industry, climbing corporate ladders while maintaining the appearance of having everything figured out.
Her awakening began with her beloved dog's cancer diagnosis—an especially painful irony since she had researched extensively to ensure he came from healthy genetic stock. Despite pursuing every possible treatment, including experimental options and amputation, she confronted the humbling reality that some outcomes remain beyond our control.
As she began genuinely seeking spiritual growth, challenges multiplied rather than diminished. Her daughter received a neurodivergent diagnosis. A difficult move to Texas brought unexpected complications. Her husband lost his job after twelve years with the same company, leading to a year-long period of unemployment despite his qualifications.
The turning point came through surrender rather than strategy. Despite financial uncertainties, the family participated in a mission trip to Mexico—a decision requiring complete relinquishment of control over schedules, accommodations, and daily activities. This counterintuitive choice became transformative, fostering deeper community connections and spiritual growth.
Her husband's breakthrough illustrates the podcast's core message: after struggling to find employment for a year, his job offer came days after a spiritual moment of forgiveness rather than through more aggressive job searching techniques.
For listeners navigating their own uncontrollable circumstances, this conversation offers a powerful alternative to anxiety and micromanagement. Through authentic community, vulnerability, and spiritual surrender, we discover that true strength often emerges precisely when we stop trying to control everything.