In this episode of Nurse’s Cradle, host Brandi Simms opens up an honest conversation about “The lifestyle,” A term often used to describe swinging, consensual non-monogamy, polyamory, and alternative relationship choices. Brandi shares her own curiosity and past experiences while breaking down the history, language, and cultural differences of lifestyle communities in the U.S. versus those in Europe.

We’ll talk about why the lifestyle is still considered taboo, how it overlaps with military life, and what key terms like unicorn, hotwife, stag & vixen, and soft swap actually mean. Whether you’re lifestyle-curious, actively involved, or just want to understand the difference between monogamy, open relationships, and polyamory, this episode offers real talk in a safe, judgment-free space.