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Ep. 84 How Misogyny is the Rite of Passage for Masculinity

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What if misogyny isn’t just a belief—but a cultural initiation? In this episode of The Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast, we explore how boys are conditioned into manhood through subtle and overt acts of emotional suppression, peer loyalty, and disdain for the feminine. From “don’t cry” to “don’t throw like a girl,” these messages aren’t harmless—they’re foundational.

We examine:

  • How masculinity is shaped by rejecting empathy, softness, and anything coded as feminine
  • Why men often bond over shared misogyny—and how that loyalty can override love, partnership, and even fatherhood
  • The hidden ways men withhold resources, silence women, and maintain control through emotional manipulation
  • How institutions, media, and everyday interactions reinforce this dynamic without question
  • Why narcissistic abuse is often a symptom of a much larger patriarchal system—and how recognizing that can be the first step toward healing

This episode is for anyone who’s ever questioned the roots of toxic masculinity, felt the sting of being dismissed or silenced, or wondered why some men seem to protect each other more than the women they claim to love. If you’ve sensed that misogyny isn’t just personal—it’s systemic—you’re not imagining it.

🔗 Explore More:

🌐 Visit the Website:

https://movingforwardafterabuse.com

Explore free resources, articles, survivor tools, and deep-dive content to help you reclaim your power and heal from narcissistic abuse.

📚 Read the Books by Lynn:

https://movingforwardafterabuse.com/books-by-lynn/

Check out Lynn’s powerful books on narcissistic abuse recovery, manipulation tactics, and the emotional journey of healing. Perfect for survivors ready to take their next step.

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If this episode brought you clarity or comfort, leave a quick review on your favorite podcast app. It helps others find us and keeps the message spreading.

Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast
Hosted by trauma-informed coach & author Lynn, this podcast helps survivors of narcissistic abuse uncover covert manipulation, set boundaries, and reclaim their voice. From family roles to patriarchy, we explore how personal healing intersects with cultural change.
🌐 Links & resources: linktr.ee/lynnnichols
Support the show: buymeacoffee.com/waketheelephant
📚 Books by Lynn: Overcoming the Devastation of Narcissistic Abuse & Master Manipulators

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Content provided by Lynn Nichols. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Lynn Nichols or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://podcastplayer.com/legal.

What if misogyny isn’t just a belief—but a cultural initiation? In this episode of The Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast, we explore how boys are conditioned into manhood through subtle and overt acts of emotional suppression, peer loyalty, and disdain for the feminine. From “don’t cry” to “don’t throw like a girl,” these messages aren’t harmless—they’re foundational.

We examine:

  • How masculinity is shaped by rejecting empathy, softness, and anything coded as feminine
  • Why men often bond over shared misogyny—and how that loyalty can override love, partnership, and even fatherhood
  • The hidden ways men withhold resources, silence women, and maintain control through emotional manipulation
  • How institutions, media, and everyday interactions reinforce this dynamic without question
  • Why narcissistic abuse is often a symptom of a much larger patriarchal system—and how recognizing that can be the first step toward healing

This episode is for anyone who’s ever questioned the roots of toxic masculinity, felt the sting of being dismissed or silenced, or wondered why some men seem to protect each other more than the women they claim to love. If you’ve sensed that misogyny isn’t just personal—it’s systemic—you’re not imagining it.

🔗 Explore More:

🌐 Visit the Website:

https://movingforwardafterabuse.com

Explore free resources, articles, survivor tools, and deep-dive content to help you reclaim your power and heal from narcissistic abuse.

📚 Read the Books by Lynn:

https://movingforwardafterabuse.com/books-by-lynn/

Check out Lynn’s powerful books on narcissistic abuse recovery, manipulation tactics, and the emotional journey of healing. Perfect for survivors ready to take their next step.

💡 Want to support the show?

Leave us a tip 🎁 Tip Jar: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/waketheelephant

📝 Leave a Review:

If this episode brought you clarity or comfort, leave a quick review on your favorite podcast app. It helps others find us and keeps the message spreading.

Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast
Hosted by trauma-informed coach & author Lynn, this podcast helps survivors of narcissistic abuse uncover covert manipulation, set boundaries, and reclaim their voice. From family roles to patriarchy, we explore how personal healing intersects with cultural change.
🌐 Links & resources: linktr.ee/lynnnichols
Support the show: buymeacoffee.com/waketheelephant
📚 Books by Lynn: Overcoming the Devastation of Narcissistic Abuse & Master Manipulators

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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