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Incompatibility is the Leading Cause of Divorce AND It's a Myth

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Conflict and differences in marriage don't mean you married the wrong person; they simply mean you're two human beings from different backgrounds working together to build a life. Statistics show "incompatibility" is the leading cause of divorce, but what couples often interpret as irreconcilable differences are actually normal variations in perspective.
• Differences between spouses are normal and healthy, not red flags
• The idea that real love should feel effortless is a damaging myth
• Conflict isn't a sign of incompatibility but an opportunity for growth
• Working through differences builds intimacy and connection
• My husband and I had completely opposite backgrounds regarding travel and dining out
• Early conversations about money and lifestyle were extremely strained
• It took a decade to find solutions that worked for both of us
• We created unique approaches to travel and date nights that blend both perspectives
• Successful couples don't agree on everything - they collaborate creatively
• Turning differences into strengths makes marriages unbreakable
My book "Bad Marriage Advice: Debunking Myths That Will Make You Miserable And What To Do Instead" launches October 1st. Email me at [email protected] if you'd like to join the launch team and help get it into as many hands as possible.
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Chapters

1. Welcoming Vulnerability About Marriage (00:00:00)

2. Busting The "Wrong Person" Myth (00:01:01)

3. Incompatibility Statistics And Misconceptions (00:02:45)

4. Travel And Dining: Our Biggest Clash (00:04:24)

5. Creating Our Unique Marriage Solution (00:08:40)

6. Differences As Building Blocks (00:11:45)

7. Book Announcement And Final Thoughts (00:13:00)

341 episodes

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Content provided by Monica Tanner - Marriage and Intimacy Coach for Christian Couples, Monica Tanner - Marriage, and Intimacy Coach for Christian Couples. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Monica Tanner - Marriage and Intimacy Coach for Christian Couples, Monica Tanner - Marriage, and Intimacy Coach for Christian Couples or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://podcastplayer.com/legal.

Conflict and differences in marriage don't mean you married the wrong person; they simply mean you're two human beings from different backgrounds working together to build a life. Statistics show "incompatibility" is the leading cause of divorce, but what couples often interpret as irreconcilable differences are actually normal variations in perspective.
• Differences between spouses are normal and healthy, not red flags
• The idea that real love should feel effortless is a damaging myth
• Conflict isn't a sign of incompatibility but an opportunity for growth
• Working through differences builds intimacy and connection
• My husband and I had completely opposite backgrounds regarding travel and dining out
• Early conversations about money and lifestyle were extremely strained
• It took a decade to find solutions that worked for both of us
• We created unique approaches to travel and date nights that blend both perspectives
• Successful couples don't agree on everything - they collaborate creatively
• Turning differences into strengths makes marriages unbreakable
My book "Bad Marriage Advice: Debunking Myths That Will Make You Miserable And What To Do Instead" launches October 1st. Email me at [email protected] if you'd like to join the launch team and help get it into as many hands as possible.
Send us a text

  continue reading

Chapters

1. Welcoming Vulnerability About Marriage (00:00:00)

2. Busting The "Wrong Person" Myth (00:01:01)

3. Incompatibility Statistics And Misconceptions (00:02:45)

4. Travel And Dining: Our Biggest Clash (00:04:24)

5. Creating Our Unique Marriage Solution (00:08:40)

6. Differences As Building Blocks (00:11:45)

7. Book Announcement And Final Thoughts (00:13:00)

341 episodes

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