60: Intrinsic Passion – Reignite Desire Without Faking It
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Ellen Dorian discusses the importance of intrinsic passion in relationships, focusing on sex and intimacy. She explores why passion fades, differences between men and women, and provides strategies to reignite passion.
Part 1: Understanding Passion in Relationships
- Sex as the "glue" of healthy relationships
- Differentiating between sex, passion, and intimacy
- Reasons for loss of interest in sex for men and women
- Rejecting the idea that passion naturally fades over time
Part 2: Rekindling Passion
- Three core habits supporting intrinsic passion: Vitality, Intimate Intensity, and Prioritizing Pleasure
- Five strategies to recharge passion:
1. Take responsibility for your own passion
2. Avoid keeping score
3. Replace magical thinking with proven methods
4. Let go of insecurities
5. Stop tolerating and take action
Part 3: Practical Application
- Immersing in passion-centered thinking
- Creating micro-moments of flirtation
- Planning connection-focused date nights
- Emphasizing intentionality in small, consistent actions
Key Takeaways:
- Passion is built into relationships from the start and can be rekindled
- Understanding gender differences in passion can prevent misunderstandings
- Small, intentional actions can significantly impact relationship passion
Call to Action:
Listeners are encouraged to try one strategy from the episode to reignite passion in their relationship and share their experiences.
Closing Thoughts:
Passion comes back by design, not by accident. Applying business growth strategies to relationships can lead to impressive changes.
Support & Resources:
Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.
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"Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love--With Your Wife and In Your Life.'" - Ellen Dorian
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