58: Your Relationship OS Part 1: Staying Aligned, Independent, and Clear
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Host Ellen Dorian discusses the three core principles successful couples practice to maintain strong, lifelong relationships. She introduces the first principle, "Inclusive Purpose," and explains its importance in creating alignment and avoiding common relationship pitfalls.
Part 1: The Three Core Principles of Successful Relationships
- Inclusive Purpose
- Intentional Presence
- Intrinsic Passion
Part 2: Exploring Inclusive Purpose
- Definition: A harmonious sense of direction that honors both partners' values, dreams, and needs
- Three supporting habits: Harmony, Unity, and Clarity
Part 3: Implementing Inclusive Purpose
- Identifying shared and conflicting values
- Co-creating a future that accommodates individual dreams
- Making explicit agreements and avoiding assumptions
Key Takeaways:
- Successful relationships require alignment on values, agreements, and direction
- Inclusive Purpose helps couples avoid growing apart and building resentments
- Clear communication and explicit agreements are crucial for trust and connection
Call to Action:
Take the free Make More Love Relationship Dynamics Quiz at MakeMoreLove.show/quiz to gain clarity on your relationship issues and receive personalized recommendations.
Closing Thoughts:
Bringing clarity into every aspect of your relationship fosters trust, respect, and genuine connection. It's a process that takes time and adjustment but leads to greater safety and freedom in the partnership.
Support & Resources:
Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.
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"Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love With Your Wife and In Your Life.'" - Ellen Dorian
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