How to Take Advice and Live Authentically Beyond Motherhood

Life after Kids with Drs. Brooke and Lynne

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In this insightful episode of "Life After Kids," hosts Dr. Brooke and Dr. Lynne dive deep into the often chaotic and unsolicited world of advice mothers receive when their children leave home. As the transition into empty nest life approaches, they highlight how to navigate the barrage of advice and discern what truly aligns with one's own goals and dreams. Whether it's advice on picking up new hobbies or making significant life changes, the hosts emphasize the importance of finding personal alignment and filtering advice through the lens of individual values and strengths.

Listeners are encouraged to critically evaluate advice, acknowledging the impact of others’ projections and the necessity of aligning decisions with personal values and strengths. Dr. Lynne provides practical tips for creating a "personal board of advisors" to streamline trusted advice channels and discusses the importance of emotional awareness. Meanwhile, Dr. Brooke shares her experiences with advice that wasn't right for her, highlighting the need for individuals to be their own best advocates, especially when dealing with personal or health matters. This episode is filled with actionable strategies to manage advice, deepen self-understanding, and cultivate a path that is uniquely your own.

Key Takeaways:

Filter Advice Through Personal Values: Always align advice with your core values and strengths to ensure it supports your authentic path.
Identify Trusted Advisors: Establish a small, reliable circle of friends or mentors who respect your goals and values for trustworthy advice.
Trust Your Instincts and Body: Listen to your body’s responses to determine if advice resonates positively or negatively with you.
Mindful Acceptance of Advice: Take time to consider the advice given, assessing its motivation and alignment with personal experiences and goals.
Your Unique Path: Recognize that your life is unscripted, and staying true to your own desires and ambitions is key to navigating this transition phase successfully.

Resources:

Life After Kids Website: www.lifeafterkids.com
Book Pre-order & Bonuses: www.lifeafterkids.com/book

As you ponder your next steps in life’s transition phases, remember to trust your instincts and inner wisdom. For more enriching discussions or to secure a copy of Dr. Brooke and Dr. Lynne’s upcoming book, tune into the full episode and explore more enlightening content from "Life After Kids." Stay connected for more valuable insights and empowering narratives.

Timestamp	Summary
0:00	Introduction and Book Promotion
0:36	Navigating Unsolicited Advice
2:50	Filtering Advice Effectively
5:00	Intuition and Decision-Making Challenges
10:00	Importance of Trust and Values in Advice
13:40	Impulsivity vs. Deliberation
16:56	Personal Board of Advisors Concept
21:00	Checking Motivation Behind Advice
25:06	Learning to Trust Your Instinct
28:12	Navigating New Phases Confidently
32:27	Conclusion and Key Takeaways

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