"Why do we keep moving in together after just four days when it never works out?" That's the burning question at the heart of this hilarious and honest exploration of U-Hauling in queer relationships. Steph and Shellbz hold nothing back as they dissect their own disastrous experiences with moving in too quickly—from Steph's teenage romance with a woman nine years her senior to Shellb's accidental snapchat mishap that exposed her fuckboi tendencies.
The hosts challenge the stereotype that U-Hauling is exclusively a lesbian phenomenon, though they admit the queer timeline seems ridiculously accelerated: "It's usually lesbians with like four weeks, maybe two... Like four days." They unpack the psychology behind these rushed decisions, revealing how present-focused thinking blinds us to long-term compatibility issues. "You don't even look at the bigger picture," Shellbz points out. "You just look at the right now."
What makes this conversation particularly compelling is the hosts' self-awareness. Steph recognizes how she's shifted from being the reluctant U-Hauler in past relationships to eagerly encouraging her current partner to move in—but with a crucial difference. She now regularly checks in: "Are you sure you actually want to do this?" This growth reflects a deeper understanding of healthy relationship progression. Meanwhile, Shellbz shares her experience of gradually integrating into her partner's space, from leaving a toothbrush to having dedicated dresser space, illustrating that not all cohabitation journeys need to involve a literal U-Haul.
The episode reaches peak entertainment with a listener's dating horror story involving deceptive profile pictures and the shock of discovering her date was dramatically shorter than expected—"Standing next to me was a woman in 10-inch boots... maybe three feet two inches tall."
Join our community at lizcommunicate.com, follow us on social media, and share your own U-Hauling stories with us! Have you ever moved in too quickly with someone? We want to hear about it!

Send us a text

Visit our Website

lezcommunicate.com

Connect with us on Discord

⁠https://discord.gg/S75b4aNHvk⁠

Connect with us via email

[email protected]