Episode 14: When Professional Meets Petty – Leading Through Disrespect with Emotional Intelligence

What do you do when professionalism meets pettiness — when the person you supervise challenges your authority, your patience, and your peace?

In this powerful episode, Dr. Fredrick Lee sits down with Morshelle Tease, a newly promoted leader facing disrespect from a former peer. Together, they unpack what happens when leadership transitions trigger resentment — and how emotional intelligence becomes the key to leading through it. You’ll hear a real-time coaching session that demonstrates how to pause, assess, and respond with purpose using Dr. Lee’s signature Change Moves framework. Discover how to protect your credibility, uphold accountability, and lead with composure when others forget their professionalism. Suppose you’ve ever struggled with staying professional when others aren’t. In that case, this episode will help you reclaim your confidence, maintain your calm, and lead with emotional maturity — even in the face of pettiness.

🎧 Listen now to learn how emotional intelligence transforms tension into leadership growth.

🧭 Show Notes

🗣️ Episode Theme

Leadership is tested not in moments of calm, but in moments of conflict. This episode explores how emotionally intelligent leaders can stay grounded and effective when faced with disrespect or resistance — especially from team members who once were peers.

👥 Guest

Morshelle Tease – A newly promoted leader navigating the challenges of leading former peers and confronting unprofessional behavior with grace and authority.

💡 Key Topics

• The emotional toll of being promoted over a peer
• Recognizing and managing disrespect in the workplace
• Applying emotional intelligence in real-world leadership conflicts
• The 4 Dimensions of E.I.: Self-Awareness, Self-Regulation, Social Awareness, and Relationship Management
• Using the Change Moves coaching method to respond with clarity and confidence

🔄 Dr. Lee’s Change Moves Framework

1. Self-Awareness – Identify the emotion you’re leading with
2. Self-Regulation – Pause before reacting; respond with authority, not emotion
3. Social Awareness – Understand the motives behind the behavior
4. Relationship Management – Set and reinforce boundaries through accountability
5. Integration – Define your personal leadership code for consistency and composure

🪞 Leadership Takeaways

• Disrespect reflects others’ insecurity, not your inadequacy
• Boundaries are a form of respect — for yourself and your team
• Composure is leadership in action
• Professionalism is your power; consistency is your credibility

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