Ever stand in front of a packed closet and still feel like you have nothing to wear? In this episode of INHABIT with Alessia Citro, wardrobe stylist and educator Conni Jespersen, founder of Art in the Find, reveals how to simplify your style, reduce decision fatigue, and rediscover confidence in what you wear. With over a decade of experience helping women build intentional wardrobes, Conni blends her background as a teacher with practical fashion strategy—showing that personal style isn’t about rules or trends, but about dressing in alignment with your life and energy.

From her signature “three outfit formulas for three activities” method to her now-viral In-N-Out vs. Cheesecake Factory closet analogy, Conni breaks down how to edit your wardrobe with ease, stop overbuying, and curate clothes that feel like trusted friends. She and Alessia also explore how your personal evolution is reflected in your style, why confidence matters more than labels, and how dressing with intention can shift your mindset.

Whether you’re a busy mom craving simplicity, a professional seeking effortless polish, or a woman ready to reconnect with her confidence, this episode will help you transform your closet—and how you feel in it—one outfit at a time.

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TIMESTAMPS:

[01:19] Connie explains how her teaching background shapes her educational approach to helping women build confident wardrobes

[03:03] The two discuss the post-pandemic cycle of overconsumption and how to dress with intention

[06:07] Connie introduces her “Would I rebuy this?” question to simplify closet edits and reduce overwhelm

[09:30] Connie’s “three outfit formulas for three activities” method helps women eliminate decision fatigue

[13:21] Alessia and Connie explore how dressing like Europeans can boost confidence and self-worth

[16:03] Connie reframes outfit planning as “meal prepping your wardrobe” — a self-care practice for busy women

[19:11] Alessia connects getting dressed with emotional resilience and personal empowerment

[22:17] Connie shares her “closet full of friends” metaphor and challenges women to stop overbuying

[25:03] They discuss finding signature style through self-awareness and preferences

[32:25] Alessia links personal development to fashion evolution as Connie explains how confidence drives true style

[37:22] Connie redefines “investment pieces” as items with meaning, longevity, and intentional value

RESOURCES:

Conni's Signature Style Method: Take the online course (use code PODCAST10 for 10% off!)

Free Jean Fit Guide: Download Conni's Must-Have Measurement Guide

Connect with Conni: Follow her on Instagram @artinthefind or visit artinthefind.com

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KEYWORDS:

intentional wardrobe, closet edit, decision fatigue, personal style, confidence through style, mindful fashion, capsule wardrobe, sustainable fashion, women’s style tips, outfit formulas, style for moms, simplify your closet, wardrobe stylist, fashion mindset, style confidence, getting dressed with intention, closet organization, fashion self-care

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