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143 Tamara Gabriel | Grieving Parents 10 Years Later
Manage episode 509075303 series 3364395
HOW TO DEAL WITH GRIEF AND TRAUMA is completely self-funded, produced, and edited by me, Nathalie Himmelrich.
Consider making a small donation to support the Podcast: bit.ly/SupportGTPodcast. Thank you!
For more information, please visit Nathalie’s website, join the podcast’s Instagram page, and subscribe to the newsletter to receive updates on future episodes here.
About this week’s episode
Today on the podcast, I’m speaking with Tamara Gabriel.
In our conversation, we look back over almost 30 years since the death of her daughter, a decade since speaking about Jenna’s death, to when we worked on the book Surviving My First Year of Child Loss in 2017, to now, 10 years later.
Her nine-year-old daughter Janna died over the Fourth of July weekend in 1997, when Tamara was driving to a friend’s home. The car hydroplaned and collided with another car, killing Janna.
Tamara became isolated in her grief and felt people had turned away from her. She responded by writing a poem about the importance of hugs:
If You See Me
If you see me, do not run . . .
I know that talk is not much fun.
I know your hearts are sure to tug,
But all I need is just a hug.
After her poem was published in the local paper, many people approached her, saying they’d read it, and then hugged her.
Sixteen years later, in 2013, Tamara started Healing Hugs. This nonprofit organisation assists with funeral-related services or other expenses. For example, when Tamara learned that, for a number of complicated reasons, a child did not yet have a headstone, she offered to provide one for his grave.
About this week’s guest
Tamara Gabriel is a massage therapist. She works with her husband, who is a psychiatrist in his medical clinic. They’ve been tog
💡 If today’s episode touched you, consider sharing it with someone who might need it. Together, we can raise awareness and create a more compassionate world for grieving people and families.
Stay Connected
- 🌐 Visit my website: nathaliehimmelrich.com
- 💌 Subscribe to the newsletter for resources and updates
- 🎧 Follow the podcast so you never miss an episode
Find Support Resources
- 💜 For Grievers – Resources for your healing journey https://nathaliehimmelrich.com/grievers-support/
- 💜 For Supporters – How to support someone through grief https://nathaliehimmelrich.com/supporters-resources/
- 💜 Books by Nathalie Himmelrich – Explore my books on grief and healing https://nathaliehimmelrich.com/books/
- 💜 Support by Nathalie Himmelrich – Offers - free and paid https://nathaliehimmelrich.com/free-resources/
Support the Show
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151 episodes
Manage episode 509075303 series 3364395
HOW TO DEAL WITH GRIEF AND TRAUMA is completely self-funded, produced, and edited by me, Nathalie Himmelrich.
Consider making a small donation to support the Podcast: bit.ly/SupportGTPodcast. Thank you!
For more information, please visit Nathalie’s website, join the podcast’s Instagram page, and subscribe to the newsletter to receive updates on future episodes here.
About this week’s episode
Today on the podcast, I’m speaking with Tamara Gabriel.
In our conversation, we look back over almost 30 years since the death of her daughter, a decade since speaking about Jenna’s death, to when we worked on the book Surviving My First Year of Child Loss in 2017, to now, 10 years later.
Her nine-year-old daughter Janna died over the Fourth of July weekend in 1997, when Tamara was driving to a friend’s home. The car hydroplaned and collided with another car, killing Janna.
Tamara became isolated in her grief and felt people had turned away from her. She responded by writing a poem about the importance of hugs:
If You See Me
If you see me, do not run . . .
I know that talk is not much fun.
I know your hearts are sure to tug,
But all I need is just a hug.
After her poem was published in the local paper, many people approached her, saying they’d read it, and then hugged her.
Sixteen years later, in 2013, Tamara started Healing Hugs. This nonprofit organisation assists with funeral-related services or other expenses. For example, when Tamara learned that, for a number of complicated reasons, a child did not yet have a headstone, she offered to provide one for his grave.
About this week’s guest
Tamara Gabriel is a massage therapist. She works with her husband, who is a psychiatrist in his medical clinic. They’ve been tog
💡 If today’s episode touched you, consider sharing it with someone who might need it. Together, we can raise awareness and create a more compassionate world for grieving people and families.
Stay Connected
- 🌐 Visit my website: nathaliehimmelrich.com
- 💌 Subscribe to the newsletter for resources and updates
- 🎧 Follow the podcast so you never miss an episode
Find Support Resources
- 💜 For Grievers – Resources for your healing journey https://nathaliehimmelrich.com/grievers-support/
- 💜 For Supporters – How to support someone through grief https://nathaliehimmelrich.com/supporters-resources/
- 💜 Books by Nathalie Himmelrich – Explore my books on grief and healing https://nathaliehimmelrich.com/books/
- 💜 Support by Nathalie Himmelrich – Offers - free and paid https://nathaliehimmelrich.com/free-resources/
Support the Show
- Become a supporter of the show! Starting at $3/month
- Join Facebook Group - ...
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