The Military, Motivation, and Doing College All Over Again
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After dropping out of college the first time, I figured higher education just wasn’t for me. Then I joined the Army—and suddenly, there I was, back at it again. Only this time, the motivation was completely different. Providing for my son lit a fire under me. I went from “College? Again?” to “Let’s go. Earn the promotion. Get the paycheck. Buy the diapers.”
Back then, online education carried a heavy stigma, but I made a pact with myself: if I was going to do this, I’d do it all the way. Read every lesson. Watch every lecture. Prove that this path was just as valid as sitting in a classroom.
In this episode, I share how I turned that “second chance” into an opportunity, earning my associate’s and bachelor’s degrees through discipline, focus, and sheer determination. It wasn’t glamorous, but it gave me the confidence I lacked the first time around. And it taught me that while an external motivator can get you started, the real growth and sustainment of that growth comes from within.
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Chapters
1. Introduction: Starting Again (00:00:00)
2. Why I Joined the Army (00:01:42)
3. Motherhood Changed My Priorities (00:03:45)
4. Online School and Making a Pact (00:08:25)
5. From Nursing to Business Degree (00:15:32)
6. Finding My Motivation and Conclusion (00:19:30)
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