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39 - Lactation Support Without the Shame: A Conversation with Emily Ager LM, IBCLC
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In this episode of Doula Talk: Postpartum, Babies, and the Battle for Sleep, Deb sits down with licensed midwife and IBCLC, Emily Ager, for the kind of raw, no-guilt, reality-check conversation every parent needs about feeding their baby. Emily shares her journey from EMT to midwife to lactation consultant, and how her mission became crystal clear: supporting families with feeding plans that are realistic, sustainable, and completely free of shame.
They tackle the myths and “shoulds” that leave parents burned out and doubting themselves, explore the freedom and sanity that combo feeding can offer, and call out harmful advice, like long-term triple feeding, that needs to be retired. Emily reminds us that feeding isn’t just about nutrition; it’s about protecting your mental health, enjoying your baby, and finding a rhythm that actually works in your life.
From prepping your support team before baby arrives, to involving your partner in practical ways, to knowing when it’s time to change the plan, this episode is packed with compassionate, evidence-based, and yes, slightly sassy guidance that will leave you feeling empowered instead of overwhelmed.
Listeners will walk away knowing they don’t have to choose between a fed baby and a thriving parent; you can have both.
✨ Free Resources: Sign up for Deb’s Free Resource Library for downloadable guides, including feeding prep checklists and newborn care tools.
💬 Work with Deb: Whether you’re pregnant and want a prenatal consult, navigating postpartum feeding struggles, or need holistic, gentle sleep support, Deb offers one-on-one services to meet you where you are, locally and virtually.
Hit play and hear the truth about feeding without the pressure, perfectionism, or guilt. Your sanity, and your baby, will thank you.
Thank you for listening! Tune in next time for more insights and support on your parenting journey.
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The content in this podcast is for informational purposes only and does not constitute medical advice. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider for personalized advice and information.
Chapters
1. 39 - Lactation Support Without the Shame: A Conversation with Emily Ager LM, IBCLC (00:00:00)
2. Emily Ager's Unique Journey to Lactation Consulting (00:02:00)
3. Transitioning to Lactation Consulting (00:02:52)
4. Challenges in the Medical System (00:04:32)
5. The Importance of Shame-Free Sustainable Feeding (00:05:44)
6. Understanding Combo Feeding and Its Myths (00:08:34)
7. Establishing Nursing and Feeding Dynamics (00:23:00)
8. Challenges of Modern Breastfeeding (00:27:44)
9. The Impact of Support Systems (00:33:23)
10. Preparing for the Breastfeeding Journey (00:39:30)
11. Reassurance and Support in Parenting (00:45:56)
12. Involving Partners in Parenting (00:48:23)
13. The Role of Social Media in Parenting Anxiety (00:51:20)
14. Surrendering to the Parenting Process (00:54:22)
15. The Importance of Doulas and Professional Support (01:00:18)
16. Building a Supportive Community for Parents (01:06:34)
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