Can a Father’s Wilayah Be Taken Away?
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What do you do when your dad turns into a one-man dating app filter… and swipes left on everyone? In this episode we’re talking about something major: when your father’s wilayah (guardianship) can actually be removed. Yep, it’s a thing, and it’s not taken lightly.
We’re diving into real stories, like the woman who aged out of her prime while her parents waited for Mr. Perfect Ethnic Match, and another whose mom basically ran the rejection department. We break down what wilayah is really supposed to be, how it's misused, and what to do if you're stuck in a no-win situation.
Hit download if you’ve ever wondered: Is this protection… or control? And send this to a friend who's been “almost married” 17 times.
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Chapters
1. The Story of Perpetual Rejection (00:00:00)
2. Understanding Wilaya in Islamic Marriage (00:04:02)
3. Why Do Fathers Say No? (00:07:35)
4. Real-Life Examples of Parental Control (00:12:10)
5. Islamic Perspective on Abusive Wilaya (00:18:00)
6. Practical Steps for Difficult Situations (00:21:45)
7. Final Thoughts and Human Impact (00:25:43)
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