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Getting married is tough for the vast majority of Muslims in the West. We know because we’ve been there. My (Zaid) journey spanned nearly nine years. It was filled with rejections and self-doubt. While I (Hiba) didn't know there was a journey to be on in the first place. After we got married we decided to create something different to help single Muslims complete their deen. And so our matchmaking service Halal Match was born. After a few years of interviewing singles, a friend suggested we ...
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“Men only care about looks.” “Women only care about money.” Sound bites like these have turned the Muslim marriage search into a battle of stereotypes. But are men really afraid of commitment? Are women really desperate for it? In this episode, we call out the misconceptions that pit men and women against each other and dig into how they’re sabotag…
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Masculinity is either glorified or vilified, and single Muslims often pay the price. Women get told to avoid “dominant” men, while men are told to tone themselves down to avoid being toxic. The result? Confusion, frustration, and marriages built on false expectations. In this conversation with Dr. Omar Husain, we confront the uncomfortable truths a…
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How long should the talking stage really last? For many Muslims, what starts as a way to assess compatibility drags on for months or even years with no real progress. In this episode we dive into the question every single faces: when does talking cross the line from intentional to wasted time? We explore why so many get stuck, the signs it has gone…
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Childbirth talk when you’re single? Awkward. “Not for public discussion”? Maybe. “Only for women”? Definitely what most people think. But here’s the truth: understanding this journey before marriage could transform your future relationship. In this episode, we chat with certified doula Hebaa Rizeq about why pregnancy prep isn’t just a “married wome…
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This is the story of how our big idea for Muslim matchmaking nearly backfired. We set out to create the ultimate premium experience, convinced that generosity and effort would guarantee results. Instead, we discovered that the real obstacle wasn’t bad matches but unready hearts. What looked like dream opportunities often ended with hesitation, doub…
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Think conflict management is only for married couples? Wrong. If you’re single and hoping for a healthy marriage, now is the time to learn it. In this episode, psychotherapist Kamela Salimi shares why conflict is the top issue she sees in couples therapy and how singles can prepare before saying “I do.” We unpack Dr. John Gottman’s “Four Horsemen” …
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If finding a spouse feels like shouting into the void, it might be a visibility problem, not a you problem. Today we unpack what it really means to be visible as a single Muslim. From offline spaces you might be overlooking to subtle shifts in your digital presence, we share practical ways to rethink where and how you show up. It's not about being …
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If we were getting married in 2025, we’d do things very differently. After four years as professional matchmakers and a whole lot of hindsight we’ve got some honest reflections (and a few regrets) to share. This episode dives into the blind spots we didn’t see coming, the mindset shifts we wish we had earlier, and the biggest lessons we now pass on…
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Most of us think readiness means having a stable job, moving out of our parents’ home, or feeling financially secure. And while those things matter, they only scratch the surface. What if the deeper signs you are not ready are less obvious, but quietly showing up in how you think, react, and relate? After years of matchmaking and nearly six years o…
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Most single people are laser-focused on spotting red flags, but what if that mindset is holding you back? In this episode we flip the script and talk about green flags that often go unnoticed but are key to a successful marriage. From apologizing without a "but" to the ability to disagree without drama, we share nine underrated traits that matter w…
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What happens when love meets real honesty, deep faith, and a few assumptions that need challenging? In this episode, we speak with Rabia Khedr, a blind Muslim woman, community leader, and mother of four, whose story flips the narrative on what it means to marry with a disability. From confident conversations with her future husband to surprising ac…
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She’s got the career, the home, the passport stamps.. so does she really need a husband? Today we sit down with Hafsa Taher, a life coach for high-achieving women to talk about what happens when Miss Independent starts considering marriage. We unpack why checklists might be ruining your love life, how success can clash with surrender, and what heal…
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This episode isn’t polished. It’s not prepped. It’s just raw. We hit record and asked each other honest questions about our marriage, no script, no filters. What unfolded was a vulnerable, improvised conversation about love, fears, cultural differences, and everything in between. If you’re single and wondering what actually matters in a marriage, b…
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This week, psychotherapist Aiah Neamatallah joins us to talk about what many converts face after the shahada, especially when it comes to marriage, from feeling caught between two worlds to navigating power dynamics in relationships. We dig into what converts should know before getting married, what born Muslims and their parents often overlook, an…
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Money talks before marriage don’t have to be cringey, they’re actually a must. We brought in Jesse Reitberger, an Islamic finance expert and founder of Canadian Islamic Wealth, to break down why it’s not about the salary number, but how that money’s made. Spoiler: halal income beats a fat paycheck every time. Jesse drops gems like the $10K question…
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🚨 Heads up: If you only listen to one episode of this podcast, make it this one. We’re obsessed. What if preparing for marriage wasn’t about ticking more boxes, but about aligning your effort with purpose, intention, and barakah? We sat down with Muhammed Faris, founder of Productive Muslim, and the conversation honestly blew us away. He unpacks wh…
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Let’s be honest, courting can feel like a weird mix of awkward silences and overly intense “So, where do you see yourself in five years?” vibes. Today, we're sharing a better way: playful, thought-provoking activities designed to spark real connection without killing the vibe. These aren’t your typical icebreakers. One minute you’re ranking your to…
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Ghosting sucks, especially when you’re serious about marriage. You start overthinking: Did I say something wrong? Is it my looks? But usually, it’s not about you. In this episode we get real about ghosting, from both sides. Zaid admits he once micro-ghosted because he couldn’t be honest, while Hiba shares the pain of being left hanging. We break do…
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You made istikhara... now you're just confused, dreamless, and wondering what’s next. Sound familiar? If you're in the marriage search scene, you've probably bumped into the mysterious world of istikhara, or worse, been "istikhara’d" (aka ghosted with a religious excuse). Today we’re breaking down what istikhara is really about: seeking goodness fr…
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What do you do when your dad turns into a one-man dating app filter… and swipes left on everyone? In this episode we’re talking about something major: when your father’s wilayah (guardianship) can actually be removed. Yep, it’s a thing, and it’s not taken lightly. We’re diving into real stories, like the woman who aged out of her prime while her pa…
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Misyar marriage—halal but hotly debated. In this episode, we break down what it actually is, why some people turn to it, and why scholars aren’t exactly cheering it on. Think: waived rights, complicated intentions, and a whole lot of ethical gray area. We cover everything from divorced moms looking for companionship to men using it as a loophole—an…
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SALAM CHILL-FAM!!!! Chill with us and let us know what you think about this topic? Can you relate? 👀NIKAH & CHiLL is the FIRST & ONLY #MuslimPodcast show on muslim relationships !! 💖🤲🏾 FOLLOW: @NikahAndChill 🤲🏾💖 Subscribe💖 Share🤲🏽 Like👍🏾 💌💌NIKAH & CHILL MERCH!💌💌 https://amzn.to/3QiulJM 👇🏾There's more ways to Nikah & Chill on Apple, Spotify and YouT…
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What happens when a student catches feelings... for her professor? And what if he feels the same but can't say a word until the semester ends? This isn't your average love story. It’s a journey shaped by quiet moments, bold choices, and some family drama that challenged what they thought love would look like. Now 25 years in, they're sharing how it…
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"I wish she gave me more attention.. Why do I have to beg for intimacy?.. Maybe I should consider a second wife!" Today we're unpacking a trend we’re seeing more often: men considering polygamy, and women actually open to it. While polygamy is part of our faith, it’s not a free pass for avoiding deeper issues in a marriage. We also talk about the p…
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In this episode, we’re diving into the world of halal courting with the incredible Lama Aboubakr, a relationship coach who specializes in helping Muslims attract the right person they truly deserve. Let’s face it—sometimes, past experiences and old patterns can hold us back from finding the fulfilling relationship we long for. But Lama’s here to sh…
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"Muslim Matchmaker" is making waves, and we’re diving deep into it. In this episode, we break down whether the show hits or misses when it comes to Islamic courtship. Does it reflect our values, or are there some glaring mismatches? We chat about the show's ideas and how it stacks up against other matchmaking shows. Does the flashy aesthetic add an…
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Starting over after a breakup or divorce? We know it’s not easy, but you’re not alone. In this episode, we sit down with therapist Sarah Sultan to talk about what it really takes to heal, grow, and move forward with confidence. We discuss how to recognize red flags you might have missed the first time around and how to rebuild your self-worth so yo…
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If you’ve ever downloaded a Muslim 'dating' app full of hope, only to find yourself drowning in awkward chats, ghosting, and people who don’t seem to know why they’re there… we get it. It’s exhausting. In this episode, we’re talking about the real struggles of apps; the disappointments, the confusion, and the moments that make you want to delete th…
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SALAM CHILL-FAM!!!! Chill with us and let us know what you think about this topic? Can you relate? 👀NIKAH & CHiLL is the FIRST & ONLY #MuslimPodcast show on muslim relationships !! 💖🤲🏾 FOLLOW: @NikahAndChill 🤲🏾💖 Subscribe💖 Share🤲🏽 Like👍🏾 The Bluest Eye - Book By Toni Morrison:https://amzn.to/4aWm8Ep 👇🏾There's more ways to Nikah & Chill on Apple, Sp…
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Today we're spilling the tea on how social media is turning our brains into mush when it comes to marriage expectations. From scrolling through picture-perfect weddings to comparing our own love lives to influencer highlight reels. We’ve all been there, feeling FOMO because your friend’s husband just bought her a Ferrari, while you’re getting excit…
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SALAM CHILL-FAM!!!! Chill with us and let us know what you think about this topic? Can you relate? 👀NIKAH & CHiLL is the FIRST & ONLY #MuslimPodcast show on muslim relationships !! 💖🤲🏾 FOLLOW: @NikahAndChill 🤲🏾💖 Subscribe💖 Share🤲🏽 Like👍🏾 https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCXnnHH7_NTFbERSJnEAllZA 💌💌NIKAH & CHILL MERCH!💌💌https://www.amazon.com/shop/nik…
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In this episode, we’re diving into the classic “I have a career, but I’m not paying for anything” dilemma. You know, the one where women are out here making bank, but somehow, it’s still all on the man to cover the bills. We’re keeping it real and exploring the balance (or lack thereof) between having a career and contributing to the household fina…
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In this episode, we’re joined by Habeeb Akande, a sex educator and Muslim erotologist, to challenge outdated views on intimacy in Islam. He’s here to remind us of the true Islamic teachings on relationships. Think consent, mutual respect, and yes, female pleasure, and how cultural norms and misinformation have twisted our understanding of intimacy.…
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What does it mean to lead in a marriage? For men, it’s not about being bossy; it’s about responsibility, humility, and knowing when to step up. For women, it’s about recognizing those qualities before you commit. In this episode, we explore the Prophet's leadership in his family and how it sets the gold standard for modern Muslim marriages. We’ll t…
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In this episode, we dive into the awkward, and sometimes painful journey of figuring that out. From emotional maturity to basic life skills (yes, knowing how to cook counts), we’re keeping it real and relatable. Spoiler: If you think ‘romantic’ means sending memes at 2 a.m., you might want to tune in. We’re sharing stories, tips, and a few laughs t…
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In this episode, we dive into the impact of trauma on single Muslims, especially how past experiences shape relationships. A trauma-informed coach joins us; Hana Alasry who shares insights on the importance of hope in healing and how the Prophet (PBUH) navigated immense personal loss with resilience, trusting in Allah’s Qadr. We also discuss how sm…
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In this episode, we dive into the concept of soulmates; are they just a rom-com myth, or is there something deeper? We explore the idea from an Islamic perspective, discuss the role of qadr (divine decree), and unpack why "waiting for Mr./Mrs. Perfect" might be holding you back. Spoiler alert: marriage isn't the end of the story. Join us for a fun,…
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In this episode, we dive into the Quran’s only detailed proposal story—Prophet Musa (AS) and his journey from being a refugee to finding a wife. It’s a story filled with timeless lessons about character, divine timing, and how a simple act of kindness (like watering sheep!) can change your life. We loved reflecting on how this story connects to wha…
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This week we confront the notorious Haram Police! 🚔 From awkward aunties and clapping controversies to MSAs that outdo Islamic rulings themselves, we share our personal run-ins with this self-appointed moral authority. 🎻 Spoiler: classical music, theater, and even holding hands while married aren’t safe from judgment. We discuss how culture complic…
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In this episode, we take you behind the scenes of our matchmaking process, revealing the immense effort and dedication we pour into finding meaningful, compatible matches for single Muslims. From in-depth discovery calls and personalized assessments to carefully planned double dates, we share how our hands-on, halal approach goes above and beyond t…
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Unlock the secrets of forming successful relationships as we bring you an exciting conversation with the esteemed Imam Navaid Aziz. Together, we explore the intricate dynamics of emotional intelligence in relationship matching. This episode promises to provide valuable insights into recognizing emotional intelligence in a potential spouse, a key de…
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What if a simple piece of paper could dictate the course of your life's most personal decision? Today we unravel the world of Biodatas, questioning whether this 'marriage resume' truly captures the essence of a person or merely reflects outdated societal norms. From personal stories of arranged marriage proposals to the cultural expectations that s…
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In this episode, we join you on the listening side, as Nida K. shares her twenty-year journey searching for marriage. She opens up about the challenges she faced, the lessons she learned, and her hopes for the future. If you're someone on the journey to marriage, this episode will relate to you in one way or another. If you have a story to share, w…
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Why are so many single Muslims still struggling to find a match despite an ocean of options? Using relatable analogies and personal experiences, we explore why having a plethora of matrimonial avenues doesn’t necessarily make the quest for a partner any easier. Is it a lack of awareness? Misunderstanding how to leverage these resources? We untangle…
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Join us as we welcome Baba Ali, the man who got us married and the founder of Half Our Deen, a platform revolutionizing matchmaking for Muslims. Baba Ali shares his entertaining and insightful journey, challenging societal norms and debunking the stigma around online matrimonial services. With a mix of humor and wisdom, we explore how finding love …
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Zahra Hassan, a seasoned relationship coach with a transformative personal journey, shares her insights on building fulfilling marriages. After navigating the complexities of her divorce and remarriage, Zahra reveals the essential ingredients for choosing the right partner. Join us on this truly inspirational and informative episode to learn how to…
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In this episode we navigate the challenges of marrying someone from one’s home country, discussing the stigma and drawbacks, such as long-distance hurdles and the intricacies of the immigration processes. We stress the importance of self-awareness and assessing one's cultural connections when contemplating such a significant life decision. With an …
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