Invisible Girls, Loud Voices: How Jane Kenyon Is Helping a Generation Be Seen and Heard
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In this episode of Coach Class I caught up with Jane Kenyon MBE — a serial entrepreneur, intuitive coach, and unapologetic champion for women and girls. Jane shares her extraordinary personal journey: from a traumatic upbringing and being abandoned at 16, to thriving in corporate life, reinventing herself as an entrepreneur, and ultimately founding Girls Out Loud – a social enterprise that empowers teenage girls to find their voice, speak up, and make bold, informed choices.
💡 Key Themes
- 💥 A Life Shaped by Adversity
- Jane opens up about being “daddy’s girl” in a wealthy but emotionally volatile home.
- Kicked out at 16 and abandoned by her father, she became fiercely self-reliant.
- Her early trauma became the foundation of her resilience and empathy.
- 📈 Corporate Burnout to Purpose-Driven Entrepreneur
- After rising fast in the corporate world (with multiple degrees and an MBA by 28), Jane hit burnout.
- She reinvented herself as a coach, then founded Girls Out Loud in 2010 after a powerful pilot project with at-risk girls in Blackpool.
- 👧 The Two Groups Who Slip Through the Cracks
- High-risk girls: Experiencing trauma, abuse, grooming risks, or teenage pregnancy.
- “Middle girls”: Not excelling, not failing — often completely invisible. These girls hold huge untapped potential, but get little attention from schools or services.
- 🧠 Mentoring That Changes Lives — Both Ways
- The Big Sister programme pairs each girl with a woman who “has been there, done that.”
- Mentors are trained not just to support, but to reflect on their own lives. The process transforms the adults as much as the girls.
- As Jane puts it: “You can’t model confidence or boundary-setting for a teenage girl if you’re not doing it yourself.”
- 📱 Social Media Isn’t the Root Cause — It’s the Amplifier
- Social media magnifies existing issues like misogyny, body image pressures, and peer toxicity.
- Pornography, violence, and grooming are now normalised online. Jane believes society handed kids this world without any real guidance or boundaries.
- 🚸 Schools and Parents: Who’s Responsible?
- Jane calls out both systems: schools are overwhelmed, and many parents are disengaged.
- She urges parents to “get on the bus” — have regular, meaningful conversations and understand the digital worlds their kids inhabit.
- 🏫 What Needs to Change
- Better, braver sex and relationship education.
- Trauma-informed schools where teachers are emotionally present.
- Stronger parental involvement and better role-modelling from adults.
- 👑 Building a Legacy
- Jane recently received an MBE, recognising decades of tireless work.
- She’s now focused on scaling Girls Out Loud and ensuring it can thrive beyond her leadership.
- 🔥 Why She Keeps Going
- It’s the messages from former mentees that keep her fire burning — hearing that “you changed my life” or “I wouldn’t be here without this programme” reminds her the struggle is worth it.
- 💬 Call to Action
- Whether you're a potential mentor, fundraiser, coach, or supporter — get involved. Girls Out Loud is actively seeking volunteers, role models, and regional partners.
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