Episode 72: Two Men Confront Loss, Rethink Success, And Choose Self-Love with Jonathon Aslay
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Two men trace a path from divorce, job loss, and grief to purpose, self-love, and real partnership. We share tools that worked, mistakes that hurt, and mindsets that lifted us out of the dark.
• immigrant childhood shaping identity and shame
• chasing money, status, and performative success
• marriage without emotional skills eroding over time
• divorce, layoffs, debt and the hit to self-worth
• suicidal ideation, survival, and asking for help
• online dating as connection and learning
• building a coaching practice to guide midlife dating
• values, lifestyle fit, and emotional maturity as filters
• grieving a son and choosing self-love in action
• gratitude, mantras, and daily steps to move forward
• finding best-friend love and aligned partnership
• practical rules for safer, smarter online dating
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Chapters
1. Episode 72: Two Men Confront Loss, Rethink Success, And Choose Self-Love with Jonathon Aslay (00:00:00)
2. Meet Jonathan Aslay And The Premise (00:00:26)
3. Immigrant Roots And Childhood Shame (00:03:36)
4. Rejecting Heritage And Chasing Success (00:08:56)
5. Marriage, Programming, And Emotional Blindness (00:12:45)
6. Divorce, Job Loss, And Identity Collapse (00:18:19)
7. Rock Bottom, Suicidality, And Survival (00:22:02)
8. Online Dating As Pseudo-Therapy (00:23:59)
9. Coaching Women To Understand Midlife Men (00:28:27)
10. Loss Of A Son And Choosing Self-Love (00:33:07)
11. Vetting Partners: Values, Maturity, Alignment (00:37:19)
12. Finding Best-Friend Love Later In Life (00:42:04)
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