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025|The First Move Every Better Husband Makes: Full Ownership

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🚨 Watch the FREE Better Husband Workshop to learn Angelo's 3 Secrets to Becoming a Better Husband Without Endless Therapy, Hating the Process, or Pretending to Be Someone You Are Not at www.BetterHusbandSecrets.com

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From the outside, your apology sounds fine.
You said the words. You admitted what happened.
But then… you added a “but.”

“I’m sorry I snapped… but you were being disrespectful.”
“I know I overreacted… but you started it.”

And just like that, your ownership disappears.

In today’s episode of Better Husband, we’re talking about the most overlooked repair skill in relationships: full ownership—without the “but.”

🎙️ The First Move Every Better Husband Makes: Full Ownership

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

✅ Why most apologies don’t land—and how to fix it
✅ What “relational integrity” really means (and how to live it)
✅ Why waiting for her to go first keeps you both stuck
✅ The simple mindset shift that builds emotional safety
✅ A 3-question framework to guide every repair conversation

Key Takeaways:

💡 Adding “but” to your apology cancels out your ownership
💡 You don’t need to be wrong to take responsibility
💡 A better husband goes first—without needing anything back

Practical Action Steps:

1️⃣ Notice where you defend or explain instead of owning
2️⃣ Use the 3-step reflection: What did I do? How might she have felt? What will I do differently?
3️⃣ Practice clean ownership—no blaming, no defending, no “but”
4️⃣ Try one repair this week without expecting anything in return
5️⃣ Ask yourself: “Did I keep my side of the street clean today?”

Reflection Questions:

❓ Where do I tend to defend instead of own?
❓ How does my wife respond when I take full responsibility?
❓ What would change if I led the repair—without conditions?

Ready to Take Action?
🚨 Watch the FREE Better Husband Workshop → BetterHusbandSecrets.com

Questions?
📩 Email Me[email protected]

  continue reading

110 episodes

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Manage episode 478435364 series 3601812
Content provided by Angelo Santiago. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Angelo Santiago or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://podcastplayer.com/legal.

🚨 Watch the FREE Better Husband Workshop to learn Angelo's 3 Secrets to Becoming a Better Husband Without Endless Therapy, Hating the Process, or Pretending to Be Someone You Are Not at www.BetterHusbandSecrets.com

-

From the outside, your apology sounds fine.
You said the words. You admitted what happened.
But then… you added a “but.”

“I’m sorry I snapped… but you were being disrespectful.”
“I know I overreacted… but you started it.”

And just like that, your ownership disappears.

In today’s episode of Better Husband, we’re talking about the most overlooked repair skill in relationships: full ownership—without the “but.”

🎙️ The First Move Every Better Husband Makes: Full Ownership

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

✅ Why most apologies don’t land—and how to fix it
✅ What “relational integrity” really means (and how to live it)
✅ Why waiting for her to go first keeps you both stuck
✅ The simple mindset shift that builds emotional safety
✅ A 3-question framework to guide every repair conversation

Key Takeaways:

💡 Adding “but” to your apology cancels out your ownership
💡 You don’t need to be wrong to take responsibility
💡 A better husband goes first—without needing anything back

Practical Action Steps:

1️⃣ Notice where you defend or explain instead of owning
2️⃣ Use the 3-step reflection: What did I do? How might she have felt? What will I do differently?
3️⃣ Practice clean ownership—no blaming, no defending, no “but”
4️⃣ Try one repair this week without expecting anything in return
5️⃣ Ask yourself: “Did I keep my side of the street clean today?”

Reflection Questions:

❓ Where do I tend to defend instead of own?
❓ How does my wife respond when I take full responsibility?
❓ What would change if I led the repair—without conditions?

Ready to Take Action?
🚨 Watch the FREE Better Husband Workshop → BetterHusbandSecrets.com

Questions?
📩 Email Me[email protected]

  continue reading

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