If you're constantly planning, smoothing things over, doing the most in your relationship while low-key wondering “Why can’t they just do more??” — this episode is for you.

💥 If you're a high-achieving, hyper-capable girly who’s exhausted from holding it all together in love, this is your sign to stop performing and start receiving. Period.

👀 In this episode, I break down:

• The sneaky ways anxious attachment disguises itself as “being helpful”

• Why trying to “earn love through effort” is killing your intimacy

• How overgiving actually blocks your partner from stepping up

• What it really means to feel chosen without performing

• How to stop managing your relationship like a second job

• What to do instead — so you feel prioritized and adored

🎧 We also get into:

• A client win that had me in my feels 🥹 (from overthinking queen to secure & supported)

• A peek inside what’s working inside Healing Girl Gang

• How my husband Craig reminded me (with an accent wall no less 😅) what can happen when we let go and receive

This one’s part tough love, part best friend pep talk, and all soul truth. Because you don’t need to earn love. You deserve to feel it, just as you are.

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