In this deeply personal episode, I share my belated Mother’s Day tribute to the woman who raised a neurodiverse household without ever needing a diagnosis herself. My mom doesn’t have ADHD—but she parented three ADHD brains with grace, grit, and intuition that rivaled any expert playbook. Through stories, reflection, and a letter I never knew I needed to write, I honor the legacy of a woman who was our structure, our rhythm, and our calm.

This episode also explores the unique role of neurotypical mothers raising neurodivergent children, Studies show that ADHD is highly heritable (74–80%), but not every family member shares the diagnosis—which makes parental empathy and adaptability even more crucial. When neurotypical parents step into executive-functioning roles for their children, their impact can be life-changing.

For those of you raising ADHD kids—or looking back at the mother who raised you—this episode is for you.