Interview with Shari Ross - Author of Senior Living made S.I.M.P.L.E.
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Most families don’t start planning senior living until a scare forces the issue. We wanted to change that. So we sat down with Sherry Ross, aging and caregiving resource expert and author of Senior Living Made Simple, to turn panic into a plan you can actually follow.
Sherry shares her SIMPLE framework to guide every step: build the right support team, learn options before a crisis, match needs to the right environment, get legal and financial prep done, let go of guilt and excess stuff, and prioritize daily engagement that gives life meaning.
We dig into the big misconceptions that keep people stuck, why “nursing home” isn’t a catch-all term, how “community” better reflects modern senior living, and why moving can increase independence instead of reducing it. You’ll learn the real-world signs it may be time to consider a move: falls, missed meds, skipped appointments, isolation, weight loss, or early cognitive slips that make routines risky.
Then we get tactical about touring: limit to one visit a day, watch staff-resident interactions, verify activities beyond the calendar, do the smell test past the lobby, taste the food, and chat with residents to gauge happiness. We even cover a low-pressure path for resistant parents—start with lunch, not a hard sell, and a practical strategy of pre-screening yourself, then bringing your loved one to the top two choices so they keep agency.
Technology shows up as a quiet hero throughout. From smart medication dispensers and passive fall detection to GPS wearables and simple video calling, the right tools extend safety and connection without replacing human care.
We also look ahead at how communities are evolving around wellness, lifelong learning, creative pursuits, and intergenerational programs that make daily life feel vibrant instead of clinical. If you’re weighing independent living, assisted living, memory care, or board-and-care, this conversation gives you a humane, step-by-step way to move forward with clarity.
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Chapters
1. Meet Sherry Ross & Her Book (00:00:00)
2. Why Senior Living Feels Foreign—Until It’s Urgent (00:02:32)
3. Aging in Place Redefined (00:05:52)
4. The SIMPLE Method Overview (00:08:42)
5. Guilt, Letting Go, and Finding Purpose (00:16:32)
6. Misconceptions: “Nursing Homes” vs Communities (00:19:42)
7. Signs It’s Time to Consider a Move (00:24:02)
8. Tech That Supports Safety and Connection (00:28:32)
9. Evolving Models: Wellness, Learning, Intergenerational (00:35:12)
10. How to Tour: What to Ask and Notice (00:40:17)
11. Practical Search Strategy for Families (00:45:42)
12. The Workbook, Tone, and Resources (00:48:32)
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