Marriage and money both require one key ingredient: maintenance.

In this candid episode, James is joined in-studio by Jeff McPherson and Todd Spencer—two longtime friends and leaders who’ve navigated physician families, shifting schedules, and the messiness of real life. Together, they unpack why couples often clash about finances and how small, intentional rhythms can transform both wealth and relationships.

From the “Money Love Triangle” framework to scheduling financial huddles that don’t ruin date night, this episode blends humor, honesty, and hands-on strategies. If you and your partner feel scattered, disconnected, or stuck in last-minute money talks, you’ll walk away with a fresh perspective on how to create clarity and connection without spreadsheets that kill the vibe.

You’ll Learn About

• Why marriage, money, and mindset all require consistent maintenance
• The “Money Love Triangle” and how couples can align without losing individuality
• The role of risk tolerance and financial love languages in healthy communication
• Simple rhythms for financial check-ins that bring peace (not pressure)
• Why small steps—not dramatic overhauls—are the secret to lasting change

Mentioned in This Episode

• Take Control Rx Series (starting at Episode 16)
• Gottman Institute’s Meaning of Money framework
• The “Money Love Triangle” exercise
• Alex Hormozi’s “BAMFAM” concept: Book a Meeting From a Meeting

Resources & Next Steps:

• Download the PSLF Hacks Checklist
• Book a free financial wellness session with James
• Get access to exclusive physician financial tools at www.imwealth.com
• 1% of IM Wealth’s revenue is dedicated to providing scholarship funds to medical students. Learn more about the Meaningful Journeys Scholarship and how you can join the fight here.
• Learn more about the impact IM Wealth is making in the lives of physicians here.
• Gain FREE immediate access to all of IM Wealth’s exclusive physician financial wellness resources here.

About the Show:

This isn’t just another finance podcast—it’s a movement. We’re challenging the status quo, cutting through the noise, and giving physicians real strategies to take control of their money and their future.

Because true wealth isn’t just about numbers—it’s about freedom.

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About James Nutter:

James Nutter is on a mission to help physicians reclaim their financial power. With a deep understanding of the unique challenges doctors face, he provides real-world strategies that cut through the noise and lead to lasting financial freedom.

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Disclaimer

The opinions expressed in this podcast are for informational and educational purposes only and do not constitute financial, legal, or tax advice. Any financial decisions should be made in the context of your unique circumstances and in partnership with a trusted financial advisor who understands your personal plan.

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